I need some advice on an issue that is going on with me and my family.
My husband and I were just called From Child Protective Services for my son in another city. His father (not my husband) was sexually molesting my son and doing drugs. I reported this to the judge when I went to the custody hearing about 3-4 years ago. The judge said that my accusations were unfounded. (Basically, the judge did not believe me.) My son is being taken into protective custody today, and the lady that called asked me to be at the hearing in 2 days. I am going to be there, but she is wanting me to petition for custody again. The problem is that my husband and I live with my mother-in-law in a 2 br apt with our 4 year old daughter and a new baby on the way. We do not have our own place for my son to come live with us. I am really struggling with this. I want my son so bad, but I am sure the judge (same judge that did not believe me) will not give myself and my husband custody because we don't have our own place. My husband is all for us trying for custody, but the housing issue is what he is worried about as well.
Can anyone please give me direction.

I am sorry to hear about you situation. I don't really know what to tell you other then the obvious to either try to find a larger place but it sounds like you are not financially able to at this time. I do know, however, that if you are seeking custody of your child, most likely the Court will grant you custody. From what I have seen, it generally takes a lot for the Courts to deny custody to the natural mother.

I do have one question and the answer could change my opinion of this. Why was your ex-husband granted custody over the child instead of you? And what type of custody did he have, (sole custody, legal custody, etc)

Pack your stuff, have your husband (or you-once the new bun in the oven is cooked) take on another job, and move into a bigger place. Unless your mother in law is attached to the apartment, the three of you should be able to scrounge up enough cash to get a larger apartment or even get going on a house in the country for a low mortgage. If mom in law owns the apartment, sell it and find a bigger home. The boy is probably damaged goods by now and will need a safe and loving environment to recover from what he's gone through. Sacrifices will have to be made.

And think about having some local thugs go to work on your ex with a blowtorch and some pliers. Note: this is sarcasm, not a call to illegal activity.

Also, think about a civil case against the father. The bastard needs to do time. He should also be made to pay alimony/child support.

Do not send the kid to a psychologist/psychiatrist. They'll just try to get him hooked on 80 dollar an hour visits and drug prescriptions. What's more, the docs name will probably be something like Liebowitz or Silverberg or Rosenblaum. That means "quack with a fancy degree hanging on the wall and lots of certificates from jewish organizations".

Think about taking legal action against the state/court for allowing your son to live with his (extremely messed up) dad, when you specifically told them what was happening and that they "didn't believe you". The state put your child in a very dangerous environment by handing him over to dear old dad. Many trial lawyers would love a case like this and will counsel you for free. Open up your phone book and start calling around. You might find yourself with a meritorious case and big ZOGbucks from a lawsuit if you can find a good attorney. There's even a couple on the forum here who might advise you on a course of action.

That's all I can think of at the moment. But the priority should be getting your boy back and fixing his mind. And that means moving to a bigger place.

Also, think about a civil case against the father. The bastard needs to do time. He should also be made to pay alimony/child support.


Hopefully the sick bastard won't be able to pay much of anything in alimony or child support, because he will rotting in prison for a very long time.

But yes, bring a civil suit against him and take him for everything he has at this time on behalf of your child.

Well, as I said, I am going to court on Wed for my son. All of those things that were advised sound very good. My mother-in-law has offered to try to get custody if I can't, and so has my own mother. My son's father is going to be at the courthouse on Wed as well. I know I (and my husband) need to keep our cool, but, after everything that he has done, we just want to do some very illegal things to him. I know that is not the right thing to even have thoughts of, but I just can't help it.

Well, I went to court today and found out that his father is relinquishing his rights to my son. I am fighting for him, I have a public defender to help me (don't know if this is good or bad yet).
Me and his father went thru a messy custody battle about 3-4 years ago. The judge I guess thought that when I brought up th molestation that his father was doing to my son and his drug abuse, that I was just being a spiteful woman and bringing up false charges. I let the judge know that I have repeatedly brought it to CPS attention and they did not do anything about it. So the judge gave him custody and gave me visitation. I did not have a job, was pregnant at the time, and was living with family.
Well, now it is pretty much the same except that I have been married to a wonderful Aryan man for 4 and 1/2 years, we have a 4 year old little Aryan Princess, expecting another bundle of joy in Feb. My husband however, is a Wildland Firefighter, but of course this is the off season for fires.

[QUOTE=aryansister8814]Well, I went to court today and found out that his father is relinquishing his rights to my son. I am fighting for him, I have a public defender to help me (don't know if this is good or bad yet).
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A public defender(pretender) is working for the interests of the court, only. Depending on what these interests in your case are, it could either be a good or a bad thing. Of course, the worst possible thing the court could know is anything about you being a white nationalist, so hopefully, at this time, not many people know that about you.

well, I see the atty tomorrow so I can tell him to his face that I am fighting for my son at all costs. Granted I have to fight Children's Services for my son since he has behavior problems now and he is only going to be 7 on the 5th of Nov. The custody thing should be so much easier since I don't have that child molesting asshole making up lies and lying to the court. I will let everyone know what happens when I see the atty tomorrow. The next court hearing is on Nov. 8th.