Fredrik Haerne
January 6th, 2004, 04:46 PM
Yes, I know the femmes hold most of the cards in the dating game, but there are still things to improve, and as a nationalist you should strive for improvement in all spheres. There are lots of advice out there for men on how to catch a lady, but few for women, so I offer some here. Perhaps other readers will add their own thoughts.
First of all, girls, don't talk about yourselves all the time! Usually at least eighty percent of a conversation on a date revolves around the woman, if you let her decide. Most girls will rarely if ever ask a question about the guy's life. By breaking this trend you have a huge advantage.
Second, don't be superstitious. Now, some men may be superstitious as well, but supposedly you want a man with quality. That kind of guy won't be impressed by statements such as "I believe all things happen for a reason," "I believe in reincarnation," and so on. What proof do you have that things happen for a reason? How have you come to that conclusion? What observations support your theory that we reincarnate? These beliefs are nothing but a way for the insecure to hide from the fact that it's a cold, dead, uncaring universe out there, with noone to take care of you. It is not impressive.
Don't show your poetry. Please, oh please, don't! Now, I know that as a woman you want to show you are artistic, but there are billions of badly written poems out there with no rhyme, no rhythm, and even incorrect grammar. If you can't write real poetry, then be the first to stay away from it altogether. Burn it, so there's no risk of a guy finding it when he is over at your place. In fact, tell him that "I used to try to write poetry, but I realized I was bad at it, so I figured it was best to stop." He will fall off his chair, never having known it was possible for a girl to say such things.
Be feminine. No, that doesn't equal "be submissive and quiet" -- that's a feminist lie. To be feminine means -- well, you know what it means, deep inside. You know how to grow up to be a lady if you want to, with the right manners, the right way of talking, the right way of moving and dressing and smiling and laughing. But do you know how relaxing it is for a guy to find a girl who actually is feminine? I once heard a guy say that "there's nothing more sexy than a conservative woman," and it's true.
Being conservative means that you follow Nature, not the aggressive, paranoid dogmas of Marxism, of which feminism is a part. Sadly, men are sometimes drawn to women from non-White countries simply because those women, having not watched MTV, are more feminine than our own enslaved femmes. Break the cycle, and be beautiful in a real and meaningful way. Remember, feminists are not your friends. Feminists are the enemies of all things feminine as well as all things masculine. They will not make you happy. Their overall purpose is to make you act against Nature in every part of life, and we know where that road ends. And when it comes to attracting men, feminism is a huge drawback, since it is little more than anti-male and anti-White dogma. Get rid of the chip on your shoulder, and don't try to find something negative in everything men say.
Go with your friends, but not too much. You will go to a party with them of course, or go to a work-out session, but as long as you are talking to another girl there is less room for a guy to approach you. Every once in a while just leave them and take a tour around the room on your own.
Don't show you are drawn to the wrong kind of men. Don't talk about some hunk on TV who is little more than an idiot. Actually, come to think of it, this is the same as the rule for men to not praise Pamela Anderson's body. It just isn't very impressive. Guys hate it how women drool over the violent kind of men, a habit that comes, of course, from the need to find someone strong enough to protect you. Don't show it.
There are many more things to say here, but for now I will leave it be.
First of all, girls, don't talk about yourselves all the time! Usually at least eighty percent of a conversation on a date revolves around the woman, if you let her decide. Most girls will rarely if ever ask a question about the guy's life. By breaking this trend you have a huge advantage.
Second, don't be superstitious. Now, some men may be superstitious as well, but supposedly you want a man with quality. That kind of guy won't be impressed by statements such as "I believe all things happen for a reason," "I believe in reincarnation," and so on. What proof do you have that things happen for a reason? How have you come to that conclusion? What observations support your theory that we reincarnate? These beliefs are nothing but a way for the insecure to hide from the fact that it's a cold, dead, uncaring universe out there, with noone to take care of you. It is not impressive.
Don't show your poetry. Please, oh please, don't! Now, I know that as a woman you want to show you are artistic, but there are billions of badly written poems out there with no rhyme, no rhythm, and even incorrect grammar. If you can't write real poetry, then be the first to stay away from it altogether. Burn it, so there's no risk of a guy finding it when he is over at your place. In fact, tell him that "I used to try to write poetry, but I realized I was bad at it, so I figured it was best to stop." He will fall off his chair, never having known it was possible for a girl to say such things.
Be feminine. No, that doesn't equal "be submissive and quiet" -- that's a feminist lie. To be feminine means -- well, you know what it means, deep inside. You know how to grow up to be a lady if you want to, with the right manners, the right way of talking, the right way of moving and dressing and smiling and laughing. But do you know how relaxing it is for a guy to find a girl who actually is feminine? I once heard a guy say that "there's nothing more sexy than a conservative woman," and it's true.
Being conservative means that you follow Nature, not the aggressive, paranoid dogmas of Marxism, of which feminism is a part. Sadly, men are sometimes drawn to women from non-White countries simply because those women, having not watched MTV, are more feminine than our own enslaved femmes. Break the cycle, and be beautiful in a real and meaningful way. Remember, feminists are not your friends. Feminists are the enemies of all things feminine as well as all things masculine. They will not make you happy. Their overall purpose is to make you act against Nature in every part of life, and we know where that road ends. And when it comes to attracting men, feminism is a huge drawback, since it is little more than anti-male and anti-White dogma. Get rid of the chip on your shoulder, and don't try to find something negative in everything men say.
Go with your friends, but not too much. You will go to a party with them of course, or go to a work-out session, but as long as you are talking to another girl there is less room for a guy to approach you. Every once in a while just leave them and take a tour around the room on your own.
Don't show you are drawn to the wrong kind of men. Don't talk about some hunk on TV who is little more than an idiot. Actually, come to think of it, this is the same as the rule for men to not praise Pamela Anderson's body. It just isn't very impressive. Guys hate it how women drool over the violent kind of men, a habit that comes, of course, from the need to find someone strong enough to protect you. Don't show it.
There are many more things to say here, but for now I will leave it be.