Just when you think it's safe to come out again...THWACK
Looks like you're stuck digging through this one yourself or posting some relevant code. There seems to be about a grand total of 2 Google hits on this and the SLR Optloader packer seems to be related to PKLite v 2.00 and perhaps WinLite. Both of these are more likely to have info floating around about.
Windows Source version 8 (an oooold disassembler...) is supposed to handle Optloader specifically - "provides the ability to decompress and disassemble self-loading Windows 16 bit executables compressed with PKLite v 2.00 and SLR Optloader".
From a Babelfish-stuck-in-your-ear translated .ru site:
At present by the only samozagruzhayushchimisya programs are Microsoft Word 1..x, Microsoft Fortran, the early versions Microsoft Excel, and also programs packed with the aid of WinLite by Rosenthal Engineering and OPTloader by OPTlink software. The distinguishing feature of the samozagruzhayushchegosya application is that advanced into 1 11 bits of flags (on mask 800h). In addition to this in the samozagruzhayushchemsya file it must be provided function BootApp(), ExitApp(), LoadAppSeg(). With call BootApp() is assumed that it it will place selectors for each segment, that are contained in Ne- file itself will correct the table of segments. Each of these functions has in KERNEL the appropriate shell: BootAppl(), ExitAppl(), LoadApplSeg().
If you can figure out what a samozagruzhayushchimisya program is it might help (self-loading?). Then there's always the question of is it worth it...?
Kayaker