hi bilbo!
what you are asking for is quite an advanced task. and "reversing" a wav is not easy, technically not 100% IMpossible, very much depending on your wav.
if you want to extract single "tracks" then you have some possibilities. i would recommend a good wav editor to you. like soundforge. or cool edit pro.
there are filters that ie filter by the panning of the signal amount. ie all that is plain in the middle can be filtered out. this is useful to find / extract voices. but depends on your wav.
you always have to cut out several ranges of the frequency spectrum afterwards ie normal equalizing (poor) or some configurable 24dB low|high|bandpass|bandblock filters.
a maybe better way to easily come to at least some result is to use cool edit pro's noise reduction filter.
you can mark an area of your wav, and generate a "noise profile" of it. that gives a frequency spectrum of that part. if you choose a part where there is only percussions then you will have the freq spectrum of "only percussions".
you can use this noise profile then and apply it to the whole wav. you can say either to cut out the profile or all else. meaning you get only the percussions, or all else.
please do not expect too good results. i sometimes was able to extract voices, but you need to remaster them. usually the frequency spectrum overlaps for the several "tracks" so you will never get a perfect result.
you can also work with compressors which wipe out all signals below a certain level etc. usually quite a komplex chain of different processing is required.
but try cool edit it might give you some quick success.
to mix, yes add them and normalize, the question is how (hopefully not in 16bit space) hehe
hope this helps as a quick start,
cheers, 0xf001