Every one says never to pick up chicks at a bar or club. Why? She's probably the girl you saw at the coffee shop, studying in the library or walking her dog in the park....except now it's a Saturday night.

Am I missing something?

It's hard to trust a girl who goes out at night to slut it up and hook up with fucks she meets at bars. However once in a while you meet that rare girl who just wants to go out and have fun for a night.
I on the other hand am just an alcoholic, I don't fuck bar rats, but I frequent fairly often. So I don't know if thats advice, just input.
Make your own decision.

Bars are full of bitches just like Amanda.

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I don't see anything sketchy with that, until she tries to sleep with you on the first night ,(then you wonder how many times she's done this with other boys)

Are you looking to pick up?

I thought you had a girlfriend Arquin?

I thought you had a girlfriend Arquin?

You must get out too much.

You must get out too much.

I get out too much? Hardly I am always in the lab, And besides I don't need to go to bars to find company, I have a lady :)

I get out too much? Hardly I am always in the lab, And besides I don't need to go to bars to find company, I have a lady :)

By that I mean that you obviously don't spend enough time being a hermit and reading totse, lest you would know the whole story about his girlfriend.

Gosh. :mad:

I thought you had a girlfriend Arquin?

Evidently deceased from his life. Reasons are disclosed in an earlier thread.

By that I mean that you obviously don't spend enough time being a hermit and reading totse, lest you would know the whole story about his girlfriend.

Gosh. :mad:

Oh I see what you mean.

So it's true that Arquin made that shit up then eh? I wanted to believe him...

Oh I see what you mean.

So it's true that Arquin made that shit up then eh? I wanted to believe him...

Ugh.

http://www.totse.com/community/showthread.php?t=2183129

Ugh.

http://www.totse.com/community/showthread.php?t=2183129

Thanks Chichi , now I can be a little less ignorant about the goings on here.^^

Lol at twotimintim just not getting it

Lol at twotimintim just not getting it


I think I got it now, after reading that thread... I sorta came back to totse after leaving here for a few years to go to university and have a life etc... Came back in the middle of that shit.

My bad?

Every one says never to pick up chicks at a bar or club. Why? She's probably the girl you saw at the coffee shop, studying in the library or walking her dog in the park....except now it's a Saturday night.

Am I missing something?


90% of females that go to bars/clubs, well more so clubs in particular. They are young dumb and full of cum. Basically you can't turn a hoe into a housewife and believe me clubbing chicks are definitely more hoes then housewife material. Try it sometime go to the same club for a solid month every weekend and you will start to see the same girls there every time along with the same dudes. Its like a fucking get together every weekend at most clubs. You date one from one club you better start going to another because if you break up you are bound to run into her again going to that club.

I only speak because I did the damn club thing for 4 years straight and anyone who has done it can tell you for themselves how repetitive the crowd can get. Oh did I forget to mention 50% of the women usually have boyfriends. Fucking tramps man not to mention you will find quite a few married girls/guys in there on any given night.

Bars are full of bitches just like Amanda.

:mad:

I lol'd.

But that's a good thing for some one looking for some NSA fun.

These responses are stupid. I frequent bars with my boyfriend, my friends, coworkers, and random others. Hell, my mom will even tag along sometimes.

Does that mean I get smashed and fuck random dudes? No, it certainly doesn't.

There are plenty of females who just go to bars to have fun and drink overpriced, weak mixed drinks. It pisses me off to hear shit like, "LOL nooo dewd all gurlz dat go to da clubs r hoes1!!!1!1" Shut up, just shut the fuck up.

Sure, there are some girls that do that, but it's no different than the hoards of idiot guys that slick their hair back, spray on dollar store cologne and try to "mack wit da ladiez".

Why aren't I allowed to go out to the bars with my friends or boyfriend without getting labeled as a drunken whore? I, along with plenety of other women, have just as much of a right to be there as guys out for sports night or some shit like that.

So Arquin, the answer is that there is nothing wrong with meeting women at bars, they're just out to have fun for a night. Nothing wrong with that.

what's wrong with a chick who does lots of dudes? i mean as long as she doesn't have an STD then it's not a big fucking deal.

I think it greatly depends on what you're looking for. Most of the people I know who go to bars (guys and girls) will go for one reason: To get ass.

If you're just looking for sex, it's not a bad plan - but typically the people who are "just looking for ass" aren't looking for anything long lasting (in my experience).

I think it greatly depends on what you're looking for. Most of the people I know who go to bars (guys and girls) will go for one reason: To get ass.

If you're just looking for sex, it's not a bad plan - but typically the people who are "just looking for ass" aren't looking for anything long lasting (in my experience).

This is your answer, and it's as simple as that.

It's hard to trust a girl who goes out at night to slut it up and hook up with fucks she meets at bars. However once in a while you meet that rare girl who just wants to go out and have fun for a night.

This.

Because I hate women alcoholics. Call me a hypocrite but fucking hell, I can't stand women who get piss-drunk!

It's one of the biggest turnoffs ever.

Because I hate women alcoholics. Call me a hypocrite but fucking hell, I can't stand women who get piss-drunk!

It's one of the biggest turnoffs ever.

Even when they're passed out, with their ass stiking up, with a skirt and no underwear?

I totally agree.

Because I hate women alcoholics. Call me a hypocrite but fucking hell, I can't stand women who get piss-drunk!

I hate drunk every ones.

The worst are those chicks who get so drunk they feel the need to start informing you on how drunk they are. In those high pitched, squeaky drunk voices chicks get.

Chicks on pills though....hot? As long as their eyes are not googing out of their head.

I hate drunk every ones.

The worst are those chicks who get so drunk they feel the need to start informing you on how drunk they are. In those high pitched, squeaky drunk voices chicks get.

Chicks on pills though....hot? As long as their eyes are not googing out of their head.

Ecstacy is the worst drug ever. It makes regular wankers into super-annoying bitchy fucks that dance like retards and act even stupider.

Ecstacy is the worst drug ever.

False.

At the bar you can usually tell which girl is the one you would see at the library or walking her dog, and which one is the bar slut. Bar sluts have a certain... smell, which kind of permeates all your other senses. Quite a phenomenon.

Bar sluts have a certain... smell, which kind of permeates all your other senses. Quite a phenomenon.

splain!

Oh and merry Christmas! :D

splain!

Oh and merry Christmas! :D

Merry Christmas! I'm hungover, have cramps from hell and am waiting for the codeine to kick in so I can function today. :(

Does that need explaining? Bar sluts are gross. Like, when you see a bar slut doing all her bar-slutty things, doesn't your nose kinda crinkle up and you just feel kinda violated and skin crawly just looking at it? I know I do.

Does that need explaining? Bar sluts are gross. Like, when you see a bar slut doing all her bar-slutty things, doesn't your nose kinda crinkle up and you just feel kinda violated and skin crawly just looking at it? I know I do.

*does not have woman parts, can't sympathize :(*

Ah, in the metaphorical sense. Yes. I thought you were going to give me key things to smell for to identify a slut. That would have been awesome advice!

Because I hate women alcoholics. Call me a hypocrite but fucking hell, I can't stand women who get piss-drunk!

It's one of the biggest turnoffs ever.

THANK YOU. I absolutely cannot stand when girls get drunk. When guys get drunk they don't make a huge deal of it, but girls go crazy. And it's not at all attractive. I realise that as a straight female I'm not the best judge of what is attractive in a woman, but falling over your heels with your make up smudged across your face and your dress askew revealing the mountain of fashion tape required to temporarily keep it in place is not hot.

As for the OP's question - I think girls are more open to being hit on at a bar than at the library, as they're expecting it more. I've been hit on in bars (duh) and at uni/parks/cafes, and it's less surprising if I'm at a bar. So I'm more likely to respond positively than get a little confused and uneasy as I do when I'm sitting in the park reading and a guy approaches me.

Bar sluts have a certain... smell, which kind of permeates all your other senses. Quite a phenomenon.

lol. This made me laugh. Good job dude.



Chicks on pills though....hot? As long as their eyes are not googing out of their head.

Googing eyes? Very interesting concept.

lol. This made me laugh. Good job dude.



Googing eyes? Very interesting concept.

*sniffs* Quite the phenomenon huh, WAN.

These responses are stupid. I frequent bars with my boyfriend, my friends, coworkers, and random others. Hell, my mom will even tag along sometimes.

Does that mean I get smashed and fuck random dudes? No, it certainly doesn't.

There are plenty of females who just go to bars to have fun and drink overpriced, weak mixed drinks. It pisses me off to hear shit like, "LOL nooo dewd all gurlz dat go to da clubs r hoes1!!!1!1" Shut up, just shut the fuck up.

Sure, there are some girls that do that, but it's no different than the hoards of idiot guys that slick their hair back, spray on dollar store cologne and try to "mack wit da ladiez".

Why aren't I allowed to go out to the bars with my friends or boyfriend without getting labeled as a drunken whore? I, along with plenety of other women, have just as much of a right to be there as guys out for sports night or some shit like that.

So Arquin, the answer is that there is nothing wrong with meeting women at bars, they're just out to have fun for a night. Nothing wrong with that.


I fail to see your logic. IF your looking in a bar for something more than to fuck some slut, thats just as bad as online dating. Majority(98.3%) of girls in a bar are not wife material and the ones that are; are taken.

I fail to see your logic. IF your looking in a bar for something more than to fuck some slut, thats just as bad as online dating. Majority(98.3%) of girls in a bar are not wife material and the ones that are; are taken.

I was simply arguing that not every girl that you see at a bar is there to bang random dudes. Some just go to have fun, so if you happen to meet them whilst there, it isn't a big deal.

My old man's an alchoholic, I ended up breaking some ribs and his sternum when he decided I was being a smartass for washing the dishes.

After being to as many bars as I've been to, the only thing I've ever seen come out of hooking up in a bar is an STD or a coyote ugly moment.

My old man's an alchoholic, I ended up breaking some ribs and his sternum when he decided I was being a smartass for washing the dishes.




LOL thats hardcore

*does not have woman parts, can't sympathize :(*

Ah, in the metaphorical sense. Yes. I thought you were going to give me key things to smell for to identify a slut. That would have been awesome advice!

Your penis doesn't retract like a turtle's head when it sees something scary?

Because I hate women alcoholics. Call me a hypocrite but fucking hell, I can't stand women who get piss-drunk!

It's one of the biggest turnoffs ever.

Not all female alcoholics get piss drunk and act like annoying fool bitches.

There's nothing wrong with them. You go out to a bar to get wasted and have fun, same as every other person/girl in there.

Evidently deceased from his life. Reasons are disclosed in an earlier thread.

you're annoying and you don't even sound articulate or intelligent when you type like that.

I go out clubbing every now and again with my matesm used to do it a lot and loved it and although I live in one of the most popular clubbing towns in the south I now hate it. Always the same people, the same shitty club music and the same shitty watered down overpriced drinks. Mind you when we go out with our mates it truely is a guys night out, if we pull we pull but its always firstly about getting wrecked and having a good time with the guys. When it comes to girls you will amost never get more than a one night stand and thats almost a mutrally agreed thing between the two parties involved. When you go to the same clubs every day every weekend you really start to recognise all the slutty "bar skanks" and usually they are pretty hot (From a drunk horny guys view) you can easilly meet up with and shag a lot of girls but dont expect anything long term. I dont know any friends who have hooked up with a girl and ended up in a long term relationship with them, shit the next day usually they cant wait to get away from each other even if number exchanging and brief flings/relationships ensue it never lasts. It also gets kinda bad when you go into a club in a group of 10+ guys and between you, you can pick out 20+ girls in the club that you have pulled, it gets even worse when some of those girls have been pulled by more than a few of you!

Well, I've gone out with the odd girl from a club or bar. I like a girl who can party anyway. I like a girl who can get dressed up to go out and look good. I also know how to chat to a girl better when I'm pissed. Even on dates I get subtly drunk.

Youre not a bro, bro. Join a frat bro. Dude, bro, seriously paaaaarty beer bongs. Bro tho 4 reel, music and shots n beeeeer. Dude get fucked up bros 4 life!!! Bromance!!!

I don't see anything sketchy with that, until she tries to sleep with you on the first night ,(then you wonder how many times she's done this with other boys)

Are you looking to pick up?

I thought you had a girlfriend Arquin?

NOOOOOOOOOOOO SHITTTT!

Alot of people go out now a days, especially kids at this nearby university..all they know is school and drinking. Other parts are obviously absent. None of them have a whorish record..you can go look back at whove they been with and its 1 person tops if they managed to find some dude thats not a pussy fuck.

arquin, you know you're the spitting image of that dude that committed that massacre in Tasmania.

:mad:

you're annoying and you don't even sound articulate or intelligent when you type like that.

Shut the fuck up you prick before I make your disfigured face more irregular, fucking cunt. :mad:

These responses are stupid. I frequent bars with my boyfriend, my friends, coworkers, and random others. Hell, my mom will even tag along sometimes.

Does that mean I get smashed and fuck random dudes? No, it certainly doesn't.

There are plenty of females who just go to bars to have fun and drink overpriced, weak mixed drinks. It pisses me off to hear shit like, "LOL nooo dewd all gurlz dat go to da clubs r hoes1!!!1!1" Shut up, just shut the fuck up.

Sure, there are some girls that do that, but it's no different than the hoards of idiot guys that slick their hair back, spray on dollar store cologne and try to "mack wit da ladiez".

Why aren't I allowed to go out to the bars with my friends or boyfriend without getting labeled as a drunken whore? I, along with plenety of other women, have just as much of a right to be there as guys out for sports night or some shit like that.

So Arquin, the answer is that there is nothing wrong with meeting women at bars, they're just out to have fun for a night. Nothing wrong with that.

She has it on the mark like she usually does.

For me it's simply don't go to bars expecting to find someone unless they are looking if you manage to get them you can work out if they are alcoholic druggie slutty party girls or not and if you like to party and they do cool or if you wanna wind it down and she does...cool too, but as with everything in S&A is based on time, opportunity, and care factors of each person basically. If you fuck up you could be hurt cause the girl leaves or you could get some mental clinging thing or all sorts of things.

Think of the type of person you'd like to meet/hook up with/short term/long term with and go where you'd expect them to be...or for fun where you might never expect them to be and see what you find.

:cool:

NOOOOOOOOOOOO SHITTTT!

Alot of people go out now a days, especially kids at this nearby university..all they know is school and drinking. Other parts are obviously absent. None of them have a whorish record..you can go look back at whove they been with and its 1 person tops if they managed to find some dude thats not a pussy fuck.

Because the most important thing in life is how many/which people you fuck. ...

Like an animal dude ...brutal take on life imo, lots more to be had.

I hate people who look down on others for how much they get laid, Its fucking lame.

I go out clubbing every now and again with my matesm used to do it a lot and loved it and although I live in one of the most popular clubbing towns in the south I now hate it. Always the same people, the same shitty club music and the same shitty watered down overpriced drinks. Mind you when we go out with our mates it truely is a guys night out, if we pull we pull but its always firstly about getting wrecked and having a good time with the guys. When it comes to girls you will amost never get more than a one night stand and thats almost a mutrally agreed thing between the two parties involved. When you go to the same clubs every day every weekend you really start to recognise all the slutty "bar skanks" and usually they are pretty hot (From a drunk horny guys view) you can easilly meet up with and shag a lot of girls but dont expect anything long term. I dont know any friends who have hooked up with a girl and ended up in a long term relationship with them, shit the next day usually they cant wait to get away from each other even if number exchanging and brief flings/relationships ensue it never lasts. It also gets kinda bad when you go into a club in a group of 10+ guys and between you, you can pick out 20+ girls in the club that you have pulled, it gets even worse when some of those girls have been pulled by more than a few of you!

You can type right, but can't hit enter to make new paragraphs so its easier on the eyes?

Any single girl is prone to being seduced, even some taken girls. And not every one who's at a club goes clubbing that often. It could be a special occasion, just a well needed night off, or a girls night.

Either way, I'm pretty sure it's not the best place to look for a relationship, but it is the easiest. But then again, not every one is looking for a relationship. :)

You can type right, but can't hit enter to make new paragraphs so its easier on the eyes?

No for some reason on totse every time I make a new paragraphas soon as I hit submit reply it makes it back into a block of text. Fucking pissing me off and I cant understand why the hell it is torturing me like that and seemingly not anyone else.

At the bar you can usually tell which girl is the one you would see at the library or walking her dog, and which one is the bar slut. Bar sluts have a certain... smell, which kind of permeates all your other senses. Quite a pheromone

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