View Full Version : Relation between labia size and confidence?
Has anyone else noticed that with women, the bigger their labia the less confident they are?
I assume it's because those with bigger labia think their vagina looks wierd and ugly and makes them feel shit about their body, whereas those with smaller labia never even think such things because it looks less.. dangly.
I've had 10+ sexual partners (not necessarily intercourse) and as far as I can remember, they have all proved this theory.
Anyone else found this?
so you mean bigger labia = less confident.. not the way you originally stated it
Silverfuck
2008-12-26, 18:30
Does labia size really matter that much? I didn't think people actually cared particularly.
WorldFavor
2008-12-26, 18:36
Does labia size really matter that much? I didn't think people actually cared particularly.
People don't really care. This guy is only looking for a reason to brag about the fact that he has had "10+ partners."
zuperxtreme
2008-12-26, 18:54
Does labia size really matter that much? I didn't think people actually cared particularly.
Well, big flappy meaty labia aren't attactive at all. To me at least. I like 'em small and tucked in.
LSA King
2008-12-26, 18:56
Nobody likes a roast beef sandwich.
coastal progress
2008-12-26, 19:06
Nobody likes a roast beef sandwich.
False. I love roast beef sandwiches.
Agent 008
2008-12-26, 19:14
http://www.nicegraphics.com/chow/Mannys/RoastBeef.jpg
Damn you guys, I'm hungry now.
whitelightning
2008-12-26, 19:16
Does labia size really matter that much? I didn't think people actually cared particularly.
I DO. I tell 'em "BITCH!, LET ME SEE YOUR LABIA!" I'm a libra and my sign is a scale and if it don't measure up bitches get killlled. illlllll.
Irregular
2008-12-26, 19:17
http://www.nicegraphics.com/chow/Mannys/RoastBeef.jpg
Damn you guys, I'm hungry now.
that is appalling
No I meant from the girls point of view.
Peoples confidence is always nocked back when they think they have something abnormal about them. And it's not like alot of women watch porn when growing up, well not as much as men, so they would see that it's normal.
People don't really care. This guy is only looking for a reason to brag about the fact that he has had "10+ partners."
I'm 21. Canny average for my age.
ellementlady89
2008-12-26, 19:25
As a confident girl, I would have to agree.
I'd have to agree as well, I'm sure that if I had a flappy, roast-beef labia, I'd never let a man wander down there. I'm happy with it neat. BUT- there are men out there that have a thing for them, so, to each his own I guess.
whitelightning
2008-12-26, 19:42
If you are seriously that superficial you shouldn't be reproducing you low self-esteem having beings.
My first love had the beefiest labia i could probably wrap a christmas present with it, just kidding baby, but I still loved lickin' that slit........in fact it is part of who you are so just let it be.
I'm really hairy, I used to shave because i was self conscious now i dont give a fuck because number one If a girl isn't gonna be with me because of my hair she isn't even worth my time, and two its really cold up here in buffalo haha.
WritingANovel
2008-12-26, 21:01
roast beef sandwich.
lol lol
To OP:
Your theory rests on the premise that girls have seen enough labias to make any meaningful comparison
that is appalling
This.
Agent 008, that was in extremely poor taste
YellowBrickRoad
2008-12-26, 22:35
This does tend to be the case, I always see topics online with girls saying how having large labia affects their confidence. I'm sure their are people are are the opposite but generally speaking I believe this theory.
LSA King
2008-12-26, 22:36
http://www.nicegraphics.com/chow/Mannys/RoastBeef.jpg
Damn you guys, I'm hungry now.
MmmMm delicious. Sucks I can't go out and buy one right now thanks to snow.
Personally I don't mind how big it is, I've been with girls who's have ranged from almost nothing to an inch, maybe more.
I don't care care how big it is, it's simply something I've noticed.
Aquabania
2008-12-27, 00:04
it definitely makes a big difference visually
but i'll stick it in anything dark and moist so whatever
Rainbows
2008-12-27, 00:16
There seems to be a correlation with guys' confidence and penis size, so I'd assume there's one for girls.
However, I can't figure out if the comparative lack of exposure to porn (and images of vaginas) that girls get compared to guys would make the impact more or less pronounced. On one hand, they might grow up thinking that their massive, dangly labia are completely normal and never thinking anything of them. On the other hand, they might lay awake at night clawing at their perfectly normal labia and cursing their freak vagina, because they've built up a complex in their head and not seen anything to counter it. More research is needed.
It would depend on the environment in which their 'labia-awareness' was cultured in. Having been in a communal shower in Germany and noticing how these women just don't care, and compared with how me and other British girls felt in there, I think the question is more subjective than it seems at first.
What's a labia?
The outer/lips part of female genitals
The outer/lips part of female genitals
o kk
l2p?
LSA King
2008-12-27, 00:32
What's a labia?
LOL one of the dozen parts of the vagina my friend :).
LOL one of the dozen parts of the vagina my friend :).
Holy shit, who gives a fuck about anything but the hole?
Pump and dump my inexperienced friend, pump and dump.
Holy shit, who gives a fuck about anything but the hole?
Pump and dump my inexperienced friend, pump and dump.
I bet girls LOVE you
LSA King
2008-12-27, 00:36
Sieg Heil to that! I think thats why they call it "pussy" universal word for everything that goes into the vagina.
I bet girls LOVE you
You'd think that, I mean I am the ultimate catch for any hoe, but I don't seem to have much luck with the ladies. :confused:
You'd think that, I mean I am the ultimate catch for any hoe, but I don't seem to have much luck with the ladies. :confused:
Perhaps you should take chef's advice, son.
WritingANovel
2008-12-27, 00:59
It would depend on the environment in which their 'labia-awareness' was cultured in. Having been in a communal shower in Germany and noticing how these women just don't care, and compared with how me and other British girls felt in there, I think the question is more subjective than it seems at first.
They have that in Germany? (referring to the communal shower) very interesting. almost like Japan.
Also, I tend to think that these women don't care because they don't really see what other women have got down there...I mean, it's pretty difficult to see someone's labia without their lifting their leg I think...
You'd think that, I mean I am the ultimate catch for any hoe, but I don't seem to have much luck with the ladies. :confused:
It might have something to do with the fact that in your mind you regard them as hoes but then again what do I know...
Meh I have always preferred neat little packages to badly packed kabab's. Its not enough to turn me off a person but i enjoy going down alot more if its more tightly packed in.
Although I do agree with this treah I would also like to submit that the inner lips and clit also have something to do with this as I know clit sizes can range from just a small nub to actually having something poking out a few cm.
jackketch
2008-12-27, 14:08
Google up vaginoplasty (of the non transgender sort). Seems there is a big market in having labia made smaller.
So I guess that answers the question.
I'm sad to say that very few women IME actually think their vulva looks good.
its really cold up here in buffalo haha.
Damn right it is. We haven't had a day of sunshine in like two weeks. Once a storm passes through and dumps a few feet, another one comes by the end of the next day! At least it hasn't snowed again in the past two days...
Where abouts in Buffalo do you live? I'm kinda close to Hertel, closer to Kenmore really...
whitelightning
2008-12-27, 23:22
I live near harlem and sheridan. Couple miles up main street from UB south campus. Hell yeah man do you smoke? I just moved here from VA