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Capt Ice
2008-12-26, 22:03
I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 2 months. We are both 18. She is a virgin and I have had sex once before.

Anyways, we have been doing a lot of making out, and I have played with her bare titties a bit. I have tried to move my hands down to her pussy but everytime my hands touch in that region she grabs my hand and brings it up.

What should I do? I am bored with making out and want more. Is she just a slow girl? Should I just ask her whats up or should I just keep making moves down there until she eventually gives in? Thanks!

SomeLowLife
2008-12-26, 22:36
Have you tried communicating with her?

That almost always helps. It's quite the concept, I know.

nimajneb92
2008-12-27, 02:27
my girl used to do this, give her time. Give it some time talk to her and keep trying (unless she tells you not to.)

whitelightning
2008-12-27, 02:57
Ask her if you can pleasure her.


then demand she gives you access or you will crush her intestine with your testicle fortitude...

YumikoAmaya
2008-12-29, 01:56
Number one. She's a virgin.
She's probably scared.
If you haven't already, just tell her that fingering her will make it easier.

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2008-12-29, 04:32
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Chichi
2008-12-29, 04:44
I have tried to move my hands down to her pussy but everytime my hands touch in that region she grabs my hand and brings it up.

Fuck. If that ever happened to me I'd feel so embarrassed. I'd have to leave town. :o

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2008-12-29, 04:48
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LOL I don't think he wants to rape his girlfriend though. Sounds like she still has her barriers up which most likely means she still feels insecure around you for whatever reason. I would try talking to her about it.

holythesea
2008-12-29, 11:01
talk to her. easiest thing to do. since she's a virgin she'd be scared and you just have to give her time. it'll happen.

cronic5
2008-12-29, 11:24
Are you fucking retarded?

You've been dating her two months, and she is a virgin and you expect her to have sex with you that easily?

Take it slow, it might take a few months to get her to have sex with you. If you are only looking for sex out of her, move on because you'll just end up hurting her a lot more than it is worth.

If you actually care or even (dare I say) love her (which I doubt since you've only been dating two months), then simply be persistent, but don't take it too far, talk about it, suggest it, then when you think you're both comfortable with it, flat out ask her.

You can't expect a virgin to have sex with someone after only two months. :rolleyes:

MRman
2008-12-29, 11:26
Dude you just need to talk to her. Next time you two are making out and you reach your hand down and she pushes it away ask her why. Don't do it angrily thought, or like you're pleading. Ask her in a serious way. You want her to know that you don't have a problem with it, you're just curious.

Or if you're a little 14 year old dick then leave her and find yourself a slut and not someone that doesn't want to immediately lift up her skirt and transfer her herpes to you.

But yeah, how old are you both? If you're under 15 then fuck you for getting pissed off at her.

jackketch
2008-12-29, 11:45
Anyways, we have been doing a lot of making out,!

Try playing an adult game.

Hazzard
2008-12-29, 12:49
Have patience, young paladin. You're not qualified to duel with pussy as of yet.

Anechka
2008-12-29, 20:13
She's a virgin, give her time. And from the sounds of it-her not letting your hands wander-she hasn't done oral/fingering either. She's probably shy or insecure, and allowing you to explore such a private part of her is a huge barrier for her to overcome. Just be sensitive to her shyness and talk her through it, and she'll be dropping her pants in no time. But seriously, just be patient. It isn't easy for all girls to get through this step, and maybe she just wants to make sure you're the right one.

Capt Ice
2008-12-29, 20:33
Or if you're a little 14 year old dick then leave her and find yourself a slut and not someone that doesn't want to immediately lift up her skirt and transfer her herpes to you.

But yeah, how old are you both? If you're under 15 then fuck you for getting pissed off at her.

We are both 18.

I actually do care about her. I don't want to make her do anything she isn't comfortable with. I talked to her a bit over the weekend and she said she doesn't think she is ready for sex. So I guess I will just be patient.

Chichi
2008-12-29, 22:21
Atta boy.

:mad:

holythesea
2008-12-29, 22:27
So I guess I will just be patient.

good boy!

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2008-12-29, 22:30
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mikehunt1
2008-12-29, 22:50
Give it time, she is an18 year old virgin afraid to give it away to just anyone. Be patient, I know making out can get boring..but just keep trying to put her hands on your cock and shit, she will soon be giving you hand jobs and blow jobs, then maybe if your lucky, sex.

xiamhighx
2008-12-29, 23:02
make a fake AIM/MSN screen name and IM her pretending to be an old friend..give her advice and tlel her to fuck you. dont laugh but it got me laid.

Capt Ice
2008-12-29, 23:47
just keep trying to put her hands on your cock and shit, she will soon be giving you hand jobs and blow jobs, then maybe if your lucky, sex.

She has never put her hand anywhere near my cock. Do you think taking her hand and putting it near there would get her to do anything or do girls get freaked out by that. And I mean normal girls--not sluts

Lucrecia
2008-12-30, 01:34
Is she one of those no-sex-til-marriage kinda gals?

Instead of jumping straight from making out and feeling up to reaching between her legs, maybe you could try kissing her in less directly sexual places, like her shoulders. Or doing sweet things like cooing in her ear. If she feels like you have potential, and are genuinely interested in her, she's a lot more likely to let you in =].

Also: if/when you do get her out of her underthings, do be gentle, and ready to console her if she, say, cries.