OK a little back round on the situation. I met a girl on the net about a month ago. We are both in our mid 40's. She looks about 10 years younger. She is a teacher and a very conservative book worm type. I'm a construction worker with tattoo's and long hair down to my ass. We exchanged some very sexual emails for about a week. I saw a pic of her, she only had a physical description of me. She invites me over one night and I go. I'm instantly very attracted to her. She is just setting on the couch twirling her hair and smiling. She isn't saying much. After an half an hour she says to me," I want you to eat my pussy." No need to say any more and she has three orgasms just being eaten. She wasn't wearing any panties under her dress and I think it was intentional. The sex is the best I've ever had. Blow jobs,fucking,anal and loves to have her ass spanked while you fuck her. She is the whore of my dreams in bed. I keep getting invited back. I only get to see her on weekends because of work schedules. Here is where I'm confused. She has never once said anything to indicate any attraction to me. I email her every day. I missed one day in a month and she was very quick to send me an email pointing that out. She does say in those emails how much she enjoys my attention, that I make her feel sexy and special and asks what can she do to turn me on. She is very aware of my attraction to her. So TOTSE I ask you whether or not she has any attraction to me or is this just a sex thing?

It's sounds like you're an object to her. Enjoy it regardless. You're are one lucky fuck.

It's sounds like you're an object to her. Enjoy it regardless. You're are one lucky fuck.

No doubt......

Man.

You have a chick who is obsessed with fucking you, and your only concern is how she feels about you emotionaly?

Sounds pretty gay. :o

Man.

You have a chick who is obsessed with fucking you, and your only concern is how she feels about you emotionaly?

Sounds pretty gay. :o

No, just wondering what is on her mind?

Ask her out on a date one weekend; in public and if she reacts like wtf?... Then you'll know it's just about the sex:p

the true definition of "troll".

in my experience, an emotional connection can develop out of a sex thing, and vice versa. talk to her about it..
good luck!

you have a right to feel whatever you feel... remember that.

the true definition of "troll".

You got it buddy.

As for OP, how the fuck is totse supposed to know how she feels? You're the one fucking her. Are you so retarded that you can't pick up on it or talk to her about it?

She's probably just in it for your acute perception skillz.

So TOTSE I ask you whether or not she has any attraction to me or is this just a sex thing?

I'm a bit confused about what you're asking here mate. Is she attracted to you? Yep it sounds like she gets wet just thinking about you/your body.

Or are you asking if she wants to settle down and have your babies? In which case I say it's unlikely...at the moment at least.

Sounds to me like you've stumbled on a rare flower, a woman who is at ease with her sexuality, who enjoys sex for sex's sake without a load of heavy emotions.

Enjoy it while it lasts.

Oh and btw I'm guessing she's got a kink a mile wide...encourage that to come out.

Sounds like she doesn't care about you and stuff.

But don't let that go, sex with an attractive woman who lets you do whatever to her, how often have we all wanted that?

Like someone else said, ask her on an actual date and see where it goes from there.

I thought people in their mid 40's had this kind of shit figured out by now. Jeeze I have a lot to look forward to in the future. :(

:D brilliant that kind of girl


But, same goes for 40 year olds that goes for 15 year olds, communication is the key

I thought people in their mid 40's had this kind of shit figured out by now.(

LOL nope. It never gets easier, at least not in regard to understanding women. You could live to be 150 and she'll still confuse the sweet fuck out of you.

:D brilliant that kind of girl


But, same goes for 40 year olds that goes for 15 year olds, communication is the key

This.

If you want more out of the relationship than just casual fornication, then sit her down and talk to her excluding all physical contact. Make it a heart to heart where you discuss a potential future binding the two of you, and how you want to elevate to the next level. If she seems freaked out by the prospect of a relationship, then forget this advise and just continue pounding away at her pussy for the time being; you can't go wrong with a fuck buddy, can ya?

in my experience, an emotional connection can develop out of a sex thing, and vice versa. talk to her about it..
good luck!

you have a right to feel whatever you feel... remember that.

Thanks PunkECat

I'm a bit confused about what you're asking here mate. Is she attracted to you? Yep it sounds like she gets wet just thinking about you/your body.

Or are you asking if she wants to settle down and have your babies? In which case I say it's unlikely...at the moment at least.

Sounds to me like you've stumbled on a rare flower, a woman who is at ease with her sexuality, who enjoys sex for sex's sake without a load of heavy emotions.

Enjoy it while it lasts.

Oh and btw I'm guessing she's got a kink a mile wide...encourage that to come out.

Yeah, never had anything like this happen, so I'm just trying to figure it out.

LOL nope. It never gets easier, at least not in regard to understanding women. You could live to be 150 and she'll still confuse the sweet fuck out of you.
Jackketch isn't bull shiting you guys and everyone of them is different!!!

Thanks for everyone's advice. I took the advise of TOTSE and had a talk with her. She is a teacher and school is out until after the New Year here in this part of the U.S.
This is how it worked out. She really is very attracted to me but was afraid too say much for fear that I could be scared away and didn't want to take that risk of her being too serious too quick and lose me. She went on to say that she has never met someone like me and I'm like a fantasy that came true and that I excite her so much and unleash her sexuality that she has had to go into the ladies room between classes and masturbate just so she can think about teaching. She has some insecurity issues and feels that I am a very attractive male and could easily find another woman more attractive then her. I don't see it that way and told her that. She then told me that I make her feel very comfortable and relaxed because I'm just a such a laid back person that doesn't make demands. Then she hits me with, there are other things I would like to do with you. So I ask what and she tells me she is bi curious and thinks that she might like a 3 sum with me and another girl, but I would have to give her my trust that my true affections are really for her as she doesn't like the thought of me being attracted to anyone else more then her.
The truth of the matter is my true affections are for her. I had developed a serious emotional attachment to her which had caused me to start this thread.
HOLY FUCK TOTSE, How could I be this lucky???? :D
Anyway everything is good here. Jackketch was right there is some kink here.
So my advise to TOTSE is the prim and proper conservative types like teachers and librarians, book worms and quite types can be really fucking wild in bed. I swear that this is all true and still can't believe it is happening. Since she has tomorrow off and asked me to come over I guess that sure as a fuck, I won't be on TOTSE. :D

If she wants a 3some then tell her you are only prepared to do it this way: She and the girl fuck and you watch and masturbate. Or that the she and the other girl can call on your tongue and fingers at any time but not your cock. A bit of FemDom will probably get her going too.

That will excite her and she'll not worry about you liking the other woman more.

If she wants a 3some then tell her you are only prepared to do it this way: She and the girl fuck and you watch and masturbate. Or that the she and the other girl can call on your tongue and fingers at any time but not your cock. A bit of FemDom will probably get her going too.

That will excite her and she'll not worry about you liking the other woman more.

Great idea Jackketch and thanks for the advise.

the true definition of "troll".

this...

come on now a 40 year old construction worker on a message board?

this...

come on now a 40 year old construction worker on a message board?
No I'm actually 45 and from the days when we did DOS but you were still swimming around in your old mans balls back then. :D

Sounds like you got as real winner there Calm. Just take it slow, continue to fuck her, if she wants a 3 sum, hey, that's even better. Right now it's just sex affection with no real strings attached. what more could you ask for at 45. Don't let that shit go.

Yep, it's all cool, the 45 year old guy is still getting some and it's really good. Thanks Mike!

No I'm actually 45 and from the days when we did DOS but you were still swimming around in your old mans balls back then. :D

*cough* ahem...Qdos anyone? In the days when men were men, women were women and floppies were really floppy.

*cough* ahem...Qdos anyone? In the days when men were men, women were women and floppies were really floppy.

Yes your correct Jackketch we must be around the same age age group. It is a pleasure to meet you Sir. I take it your from the U.K. ? These kids just don't have any respect for old computer guys. :)

Yes your correct Jackketch we must be around the same age age group. It is a pleasure to meet you Sir. I take it your from the U.K. ? These kids just don't have any respect for old computer guys. :)

I turned 40 this last March and live in Norfolk (the real sister shagging one not your pale colonial imitation), for my sins...which are truly manifold. Not sure I qualify as an older computer guy, I stopped with the Sinclair ZX81 (Timex) and didn't start again until my then teenage kids needed a computer for school.

I bought a Pentium 2 second hand , running Win95. It didn't work so Daddy got his tools out. Ain't much I can't bodge with a 1/4 " ratchett.

Now I write for a computer mag about some old shit.

Oh and some people think I was behind the last totse hack...

I turned 40 this last March and live in Norfolk (the real sister shagging one not your pale colonial imitation), for my sins...which are truly manifold. Not sure I qualify as an older computer guy, I stopped with the Sinclair ZX81 (Timex) and didn't start again until my then teenage kids needed a computer for school.

I bought a Pentium 2 second hand , running Win95. It didn't work so Daddy got his tools out. Ain't much I can't bodge with a 1/4 " ratchett.

Now I write for a computer mag about some old shit.

Oh and some people think I was behind the last totse hack...

I think you're Zok and Meta is Jeff but then again I'm a paranoid person by nature.

I think you're Zok and Meta is Jeff but then again I'm a paranoid person by nature.

No I'm not Zok. He is actually real but we all take turns to be acidmelt.

No I'm not Zok. He is actually real but we all take turns to be acidmelt.

Or maybe that's just what you want us all to believe. *shifty eyes*

Or maybe that's just what you want us all to believe. *shifty eyes*

Some say he's German and Hitler's lost love child,

some say he's English and so twisted he'd roger a stuffed badger if it stood still long enough.

All we know is, he's called jackketch...or Jeff Hunter...or Yoyobek....or -SpectraL...

Some say he's German and Hitler's lost love child,

some say he's English and so twisted he'd roger a stuffed badger if it stood still long enough.

All we know is, he's called jackketch...or Jeff Hunter...or Yoyobek....or -SpectraL...

The plot thickens....

I turned 40 this last March and live in Norfolk (the real sister shagging one not your pale colonial imitation), for my sins...which are truly manifold. Not sure I qualify as an older computer guy, I stopped with the Sinclair ZX81 (Timex) and didn't start again until my then teenage kids needed a computer for school.

I bought a Pentium 2 second hand , running Win95. It didn't work so Daddy got his tools out. Ain't much I can't bodge with a 1/4 " ratchett.

Now I write for a computer mag about some old shit.

Oh and some people think I was behind the last totse hack...

That is funny Jackketch, yes, your are an old computer guy. Some times you just have to do what it takes to make shit work. You're cool. Us old guys have to look out for each other. :) The kids now days just take everything for granted. They don't understand the gift of computers and the internet we never had. I extend my hand of peace and freindship to you no matter where you are.

That is funny Jackketch, yes, your are an old computer guy. Some times you just have to do what it takes to make shit work. You're cool. Us old guys have to look out for each other. :) The kids now days just take everything for granted. They don't understand the gift of computers and the internet we never had. I extend my hand of peace and freindship to you no matter where you are.

Damn, you couldn't sound any older except maybe if you'd started with "Back in my day..." or even "I remember when I was a youngster and..."

Honestly though, I'd rather this be the grandpappy forum than it be the kidiot forum.

The kids now days just take everything for granted. They don't understand the gift of computers and the internet we never had.

http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b116/horta/esstisch_heut.jpg

...which is my dining table this evening, trying to get a computer built before the intrawebz, on the net.

GIGO

oh and for the young 'uns here, that box sticking out from the computer is a SCSI hard drive with about 48mb storage capacity.

Smoking!

With age comes wisdom. Yes getting old sucks.

These kids just don't have any respect for old computer guys. :)

if you had left old computer guys away you'd be right :)

But good luck man

And the pro silent girls thing has my vote. The 2 most kinky girls i ever had the honour and pleasure of sleeping with were both the silent, intelligent type. Sadly, most people my age and younger think it's the other wild ones you want, the loud attention whores full of makeup. They don't realise the wanting attention and not giving shit continues in the sack

http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b116/horta/esstisch_heut.jpg

...which is my dining table this evening, trying to get a computer built before the intrawebz, on the net.

GIGO

oh and for the young 'uns here, that box sticking out from the computer is a SCSI hard drive with about 48mb storage capacity.

Smoking!

Yep those are the old days!!!!

Yep those are the old days!!!!

And I have Chrissie Hind on in the background sending aural orgasms down my spine ..."got bottle, gonna use it"and Joe Strummer telling me that the wheat is gettin' thin.

Old school, peoples...but class.

Ask her out on a date one weekend; in public and if she reacts like wtf?... Then you'll know it's just about the sex:p

This man. Sounds like you're a boy toy to meeeeee.

OK a little back round on the situation.


It's sounds like you're an object to her. Enjoy it regardless. You're are one lucky fuck.

for the love of grammar learn to fucking write english.

the true definition of "troll".

stfu acolyte, you havent even been here remotely long enough to even consider if this guy is a troll or not. And we dont give a fuck if youve been lurking here for 4 years. fucking twat

pics. fully nude. NOW.