rape, shit i dunno how i can word this so it doesnt sound that bad, but anyways here goes...

if i was raped by an ok lookin or good fella then,well,id actually kinda enjoy it.well unless he beat the crap outta me.but if he had complete power over me id like it.i find it such a fuckin turn on, say if a guy got me,twisted my wrists around by my back an pushed me against a wall.i dunno, i would definitely enjoy it anyway.i love rough sex aswel.
but if it was an ugly guy or someone i really didnt like (a poncy boy or somethin)then id kick him in the nuts an tell him to get lost..

is there anyone else out there like this?

but if it was an ugly guy or someone i really didnt like (a poncy boy or somethin)then id kick him in the nuts an tell him to get lost.

I don't think it's that easy to get out of rape.

I don't think it's that easy to get out of rape.

lawlz

but yeah that's actually a fairly common fantasy. makes sense, that's how the cavemen did it.

So you're saying if you were walking alone one night, and a man with gelled hair who could be considered "hot" sexually assaulted you, threw you on the ground, punched you in the tits, ripped your minskirt up, and since you're a whore and don't wear panties, he could just plow you?

Yes. I think you would enjoy that. Especially if he has the AIDS.

I don't think it's that easy to get out of rape.



Much humor and true. Rape is a control issue and its w/o consent. Its a violation of a persons right forcing them into a situation. Whether its a turn on and you do this with your counter part is one thing but for a random person to rape you is another and I am sure no rapes go the way you think they do, this I can guarantee. Some couples do fantasy rapes to spice things up and go into that taboo but no women would love to be in a real life rape. Sound like a troll if you think so.

Very common fantasy, as someone else said it is all about control and rape fantasy is about trusting someone enough to hand them control. There are very few women who don't enjoy a hint, and I do mean a hint, of 'rape' in a healthy sex life.

How is it rape if you enjoy it?

I don't know how many hot guys need to rape girls. They don't need to hang around in dark alleys to find girls, they just get you at the club before you leave for the alley.

So basically, you would consent to sex with some men and wouldn't with others.

How does that make your case special?

but if it was an ugly guy or someone i really didnt like (a poncy boy or somethin)then id kick him in the nuts an tell him to get lost..


Then he rapes you anyway and possibly also murders you.

Trust me on this one, I've had some crazy fantasies including rape but once it happens it is not like you think it would be. No matter how attractive the guy is, being touched/fondled/raped against your own will is not pleasurable.

Rape is overrated.


My brain was raped, by drugs tehee

rape, shit i dunno how i can word this so it doesnt sound that bad, but anyways here goes...

if i was raped by an ok lookin or good fella then,well,id actually kinda enjoy it.well unless he beat the crap outta me.but if he had complete power over me id like it.i find it such a fuckin turn on, say if a guy got me,twisted my wrists around by my back an pushed me against a wall.i dunno, i would definitely enjoy it anyway.i love rough sex aswel.
but if it was an ugly guy or someone i really didnt like (a poncy boy or somethin)then id kick him in the nuts an tell him to get lost..

is there anyone else out there like this?

For some reason I laughed despite not knowing what it meant. I bet it means like a nancy boy?

ive had 2 gf's who liked to have rough sex like i was forcing them even though i wasnt. they'd have me choke them while we were fucking and i mean really choke them. with the last one i just thought fuck it and punched her full on hard in the face she finished with me not longer after.

ive had 2 gf's who liked to have rough sex like i was forcing them even though i wasnt. they'd have me choke them while we were fucking and i mean really choke them. with the last one i just thought fuck it and punched her full on hard in the face she finished with me not longer after.

I lol'd.

I like a rape fantasy porno as much as the next girl, and roleplayrape is all well and good. But there is no way I would enjoy being raped for real. It's not just about the fucking. What about the feelings of terror not knowing what will happen next? If he's the type of guy to get some sick thrill out of shoving a knife up you, or if he's going kill you after he's done? And then the sickening wait for the results or your STD test.

The thing is, even if you have some ideal rape scenario in your head, that isn't going to be what's in his head. He probably wouldn't be attractive, and he wouldn't do all the things you picture him doing. You would hate it and might end up with aids. So yeah, if you like the idea of rape, organise a roleplay rape with a guy you know. You would probably love that, but you wouldn't like the real thing.

And writinganovel, yes poncy is pretty much like nancy boy.

..Wait a second. So, if, say, you knew for a fact that a guy will do nothing to really hurt you, and that he was STD free.. Would you actually enjoy real spontaneous rape by a guy you barely know?

No not at all. I was just putting emphasis on the thoughts of him hurting her and STDs because I didn't think she would listen to a mere "You wouldn't enjoy it"

I would not enjoy any kind of real rape. I would however enjoy a rape fantasy (i.e I pretend to be all helpless and whatnot and he pretends to rape me) with someone that I was seeing and really trusted. Rape fantasies are hot, but only if they are consentual which is what makes them acting out a fantasy rather than being a rape.

I enjoy it, not sure about the woman who is half passed out though; it surely can't be rape if someone is enjoying it and wanting it though.

ive had 2 gf's who liked to have rough sex like i was forcing them even though i wasnt. they'd have me choke them while we were fucking and i mean really choke them. with the last one i just thought fuck it and punched her full on hard in the face she finished with me not longer after.



The funny thing is she could press charges on you if she wanted. BDSM is not safe from the law lol.

This thread is extending beyond the limits of utter retardedness. I'm pretty sure OP is a troll but for the sake of sopeboxing...

The situation you are describing, OP, is not rape. Rape is when some sick, sadistic bastard gets off on totally violating, humiliating and degrading a person in the worst possible way. It isn't a nice scene where you are just so mindblowingly attractive that the gorgeous male model/fireman/professional soccer player simply cannot resist his urge to have you, and then has his way with you. Generally it goes more like: you are walking home from work late at night, looking over your shoulder, already on edge, when you're blindsided, either by a punch to back of the head, a knife to your back, or perhaps just an arm around your neck, preventing you from screaming for help. The guy is some filthy fucker with a potbelly, greasy hair and a wild look in his eye, and he obviously hasn't shaven or washed, as is clear from the stale odor of sweat and cigarettes that lingers around him like a fog. He slaps you, punches you, kicks you, presses his knife or barrel against your throat and warns you that if you make one wrong move you're dead. His eyes travel lecherously over your body as though he were ogling a buffet before him, he licks his lips and your skin crawls. He rips off your clothing, you struggle and he punches you again, in the stomach. He keeps hitting you until your entire body feels like a giant bruise, he warns you again that he will kill you, and you fill with terror like ice...you don't know what he's going to do to you, in which ways he's going to violate you, if you're still going to be alive when it's over. You have no control over your body, he could do anything to you and you have no power to stop it. Then it begins...I don't think I need to describe to you how pleasant it's not going to be. Real rape isn't rough sex, it's vicious; the purpose is not sexual release, but domination, degradation, to make you feel pain. You lay there with his rough weight pressing down on you, unable to breathe, unable the scream, unable to think...all you can feel is the searing pain between your legs, the steel against your throat, and his eyes boring into yours, and you can see that the terror in your eyes is getting him off. He finishes, fills your body with his disgusting release, letting his monopoly on your body continue even after he's left. You are a husk, an object, a tool for him to use as he pleases, and he makes sure you know it. But you're lucky; after he's raped you, he doesn't kill you, he just beats you up a bit more, and while you're laying there, crying, trying to collect your clothing and cringe away from his blows, he puts on his pants and runs off. Your body doesn't feel like it belongs to you anymore. You are filled with disgust, at yourself and at him. You feel dirty, like no matter how hard you wash you can never get him off of you. People (men, usually) say that they don't understand why rape is so bad, but it's because having every shred of dignity, of control, of your value as a human being viciously torn away from you like that is something that stays with you, changes who you are as a person.

Is this what you fantasize about, OP? If not, don't you dare say that maybe being raped wouldn't be so bad, that it might be a nice looking guy and you'd enjoy it. That's a fucking insult to all the women and girls in the world who endure to most horrific sexual abuse, the most horrible forced taking of someone's dignity and control. Rape fantasies are one thing, but honey there is a world of difference between saying that fantasy rape and reality rape are even remotely in the same league, and that real, honest-to-god rape can ever be tolerable.That is fucking retarded and insulting to all the girls who wander home, their eyes glazed over, and spend two hours in the shower scrubbing themselves but unable to wash the feel of the filth off of their bodies...

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Hawt.
You should write erotica.

This thread is extending beyond the limits of utter retardedness. I'm pretty sure OP is a troll but for the sake of sopeboxing...

for fuck's sake i am starting to like you.

what is happening to me?!?!?!?!?



The situation you are describing, OP, is not rape. Rape is when some sick, sadistic bastard gets off on totally violating, humiliating and degrading a person in the worst possible way. It isn't a nice scene where you are just so mindblowingly attractive that the gorgeous male model/fireman/professional soccer player simply cannot resist his urge to have you, and then has his way with you.

"professional soccer player"? I resent that on behalf of our hockey-playing, super hot Canadian boys.


Generally it goes more like: you are walking home from work late at night, looking over your shoulder, already on edge, when you're blindsided, either by a punch to back of the head, a knife to your back, or perhaps just an arm around your neck, preventing you from screaming for help.

You have much knowledge in how rape usually takes rape.

Perhaps too much.




The guy is some filthy fucker with a potbelly, greasy hair and a wild look in his eye, and he obviously hasn't shaven or washed, as is clear from the stale odor of sweat and cigarettes that lingers around him like a fog. He slaps you, punches you, kicks you, presses his knife or barrel against your throat and warns you that if you make one wrong move you're dead. His eyes travel lecherously over your body as though he were ogling a buffet before him, he licks his lips and your skin crawls. He rips off your clothing, you struggle and he punches you again, in the stomach. He keeps hitting you until your entire body feels like a giant bruise, he warns you again that he will kill you, and you fill with terror like ice...you don't know what he's going to do to you, in which ways he's going to violate you, if you're still going to be alive when it's over. You have no control over your body, he could do anything to you and you have no power to stop it. Then it begins...I don't think I need to describe to you how pleasant it's not going to be. Real rape isn't rough sex, it's vicious; the purpose is not sexual release, but domination, degradation, to make you feel pain. You lay there with his rough weight pressing down on you, unable to breathe, unable the scream, unable to think...all you can feel is the searing pain between your legs, the steel against your throat, and his eyes boring into yours, and you can see that the terror in your eyes is getting him off. He finishes, fills your body with his disgusting release, letting his monopoly on your body continue even after he's left. You are a husk, an object, a tool for him to use as he pleases, and he makes sure you know it. But you're lucky; after he's raped you, he doesn't kill you, he just beats you up a bit more, and while you're laying there, crying, trying to collect your clothing and cringe away from his blows, he puts on his pants and runs off. Your body doesn't feel like it belongs to you anymore. You are filled with disgust, at yourself and at him. You feel dirty, like no matter how hard you wash you can never get him off of you. People (men, usually) say that they don't understand why rape is so bad, but it's because having every shred of dignity, of control, of your value as a human being viciously torn away from you like that is something that stays with you, changes who you are as a person.

1. You might want to consider taking up writing professionally.
2. You should probably submit this to Totse Erotica.
3. Also I suddenly got an overwhelming urge to purchase a bear mace.


Is this what you fantasize about, OP? If not, don't you dare say that maybe being raped wouldn't be so bad, that it might be a nice looking guy and you'd enjoy it. That's a fucking insult to all the women and girls in the world who endure to most horrific sexual abuse, the most horrible forced taking of someone's dignity and control. Rape fantasies are one thing, but honey there is a world of difference between saying that fantasy rape and reality rape are even remotely in the same league, and that real, honest-to-god rape can ever be tolerable.That is fucking retarded and insulting to all the girls who wander home, their eyes glazed over, and spend two hours in the shower scrubbing themselves but unable to wash the feel of the filth off of their bodies...

While I wholeheartedly agree with you, I feel that I should point out to you that (I am 98% sure) OP is trolling.

WAN where bouts in Ontario do you live.

WAN where bouts in Ontario do you live.

Depends on who wants to know.

r u a hawt white boi

I've been raped by a big black man when i was walking in a park, i saw some guy running around in a leapord skin man thong and 2 mins later my ovaries where getting rick rolled.

For some reason I laughed despite not knowing what it meant. I bet it means like a nancy boy?

On behalf of all the men of Nancy , I must protest!

I mean, how many towns have an official motto of "Nemo me impune lacessit" ? (which means something like "fuck with me and you will get hurt").

On behalf of all the men of Nancy , I must protest!

I mean, how many towns have an official motto of "Nemo me impune lacessit" ? (which means something like "fuck with me and you will get hurt").
Damn I gotta watch Finding Nemo again, there's a whole other level of subtext I must've missed.

It isn't a nice scene where you are just so mindblowingly attractive that the gorgeous male model/fireman/professional soccer player simply cannot resist his urge to have you, and then has his way with you.

So what you're saying is that if he looked good and/or was rich and famous, saw you and then "had his way with you" (aka raped you), you'd find it nice?

I don't get it. Why is it that every time you girls talk about rape, you have to say "rape is a horrible horrible thing..", and then, instead of stopping right there, add "..it's horrible, because you're not likely to get raped by some drop dead gorgeous guy, but by some sweaty fat ugly bloke". Wha?? :confused:

This thread is inspired by, believe it or not, that WWE movie The Condemned, which I just watched. In it, a bunch of death-row convicts are thrown on an island for a fight to the death. There are 2 hot women in the mix, and (obviously) various men try to rape, or succeed in raping them.

This, for some reason, disgusts the characters in the film much more than them being beaten and/or murdered.

Now, obviously men and women operate and think differently when it comes to sex, but given that women do get pleasure from being penetrated, is it REALLY as bad as we are led to believe? I mean, if a male is raped (by a man), it is physically painful and damaging and can destroy his manhood. Female rape, while it has pain associated with it (when the woman isn't wet and if the man is rough), simply can't compare on a physical level. So, just how bad is the emotional damage? Is it unfeasible for a woman to just accept the situation, think "Well, I'm not attracted to this guy, and he might be dirty, but that is a cock in my vagina", and perhaps enjoy it?

Before the female posters here get their panties in a bunch, I'm not trying to support rape in any way, and I implore you to resist the urge to get angry. I mean, if I imagine the most emotionally damaging female on male rape scenario, it would involve a disgusting, ugly, fat girl tying me up, giving me viagra, and riding like crazy. The thought disgusts me, but I also feel pretty confident that I could accept the sitiuation, close my eyes, and just enjoy getting off. Is that feasible for women?

Last thing: We'll assume that no actual hitting or threat of violence (knife, gun, etc.) is involved, and we'll assume that no one except you and the rapist would find out.

Look two threads down. There is another thread on rape down there.

Look two threads down. There is another thread on rape down there.

Ah, I didn't see it. That thread was poorly written and might even be trollery, so...I encourage people to post in here.

How Bad Is Rape?

Pretty bad...?

The emotional damage is unbelievable.

If you were raped by another male you wouldn't enjoy it. Pain wise it's probably about the same as a female being raped because you CAN enjoy anal sex. When you don't want the sex, in the case of rape, it will hurt, anally or vaginally.

Look at the post silverfuck made in the other thread, very detailed.

Something that just occurred to me:

I was mugged about 5 or 6 years ago. It involved the threat of violence, and some actual violence, and it was traumatizing enough that even today my actions and behavior are somewhat influenced by it. So, without a doubt, I understand that rape victims must be traumatized quite a bit.

My main question is whether rape can be enjoyed in "ideal" circumstances, and furthermore, if it's really a worse trauma than, say, being mugged.

Ah, I didn't see it. That thread was poorly written and might even be trollery, so...I encourage people to post in here.

I encourage mods to merge your OP into that thread. :cool:

A troll post is not considered a troll post if it generates valid discussion, which that thread did.

The emotional damage is unbelievable.

If you were raped by another male you wouldn't enjoy it. Pain wise it's probably about the same as a female being raped because you CAN enjoy anal sex. When you don't want the sex, in the case of rape, it will hurt, anally or vaginally.

Look at the post silverfuck made in the other thread, very detailed.

Comparing homosexual anal rape to heterosexual vaginal rape (on a physical level) is retarded. Don't post retarded shit in my thread.

Something that just occurred to me:

I was mugged about 5 or 6 years ago. It involved the threat of violence, and some actual violence, and it was traumatizing enough that even today my actions and behavior is somewhat influenced by it. So, without a doubt, I understand that rape victims must have been traumatized quite a bit.

My main question is whether rape can be enjoyed, and furthermore, if it's really a worse trauma than, say, being mugged.

It's like being mugged of your innocence. It can be enjoyed though, some rapists like to make their victims physically enjoy the rape so that they are confused into thinking they wanted it.

Comparing homosexual anal rape to heterosexual vaginal rape (on a physical level) is retarded. Don't post retarded shit in my thread.

Have you personally been fucked in the ass and the vagina?

Yeah, didn't think so.

I'm not going to lie.

A black guy making a thread asking why rape is so bad makes me feel a little uneasy.

I looked over Silverfuck's post in the other thread. The "rape is the worst thing ever" view she holds is problematic. It basically is suggesting that sex is the core of a woman's existence, which goes hand in hand with the sexist, negative view of women as sex objects.

Have you personally been fucked in the ass and the vagina?

Yeah, didn't think so.

1) The vagina stretches much more readily than the anus. People that practice anal sex have to stretch their anuses for a reason.
2) The vagina produces lubrication, and the anus does not.
3) Although anal sex can stimulate the prostate, the stimulation is not the same as the stimulation of the vaginal walls that occurs with vaginal sex.

It's a dumb comparison.

EDIT: It's also retarded, of course, because you are comparing male-on-male rape (ie. contact that could not be enjoyed as normal sex by a hetero man under any circumstances) with male-on-female rape.

If you want to try to compare the traumatic results, that's acceptable, but the comparison you're making now is absurd.

The man Silverfuck described could have been Kyoki.

2) The vagina produces lubrication, and the anus does not.

But only when they're aroused. When they're getting raped, they're not horny. They're fucking scared. That's why it hurts so bad.

1) The vagina stretches much more readily than the anus.
2) The vagina produces lubrication, and the anus does not.
3) Although anal sex can stimulate the prostate, the stimulation is not the same as the stimulation of the vaginal walls that occurs with vaginal sex.

It's a dumb comparison.

EDIT: It's also retarded, of course, because you are comparing male-on-male rape (ie. contact that could not be enjoyed as normal sex by a hetero man under any circumstances) with male-on-female rape.

Personally I think it's more a mindset. When you're going to have sex, either entry, your doing it thinking your going to enjoy it, therefore you're much more likely too. With rape your not thinking 'oh damn I've got a penis in me this is great'.

But only when they're aroused. When they're getting raped, they're not horny. They're fucking scared. That's why it hurts so bad.

Exactly.

But only when they're aroused. When they're getting raped, they're not horny. They're fucking scared. That's why it hurts so bad.

Indeed. The fact that many rapes take place in a violent, non-arousing setting definitely confounds the effect of the sexual aspect.

But, I question the idea that a woman's vagina is truly "dry", and hurting "so bad" during rape. The entrance might be dry, but the inside would have to be wet. Otherwise, the rapist's penis would suffer from the lack of lubrication as well.

There's a difference between fantasising about being raped and ACTUALLY being fucking RAPED. Silverfuck was on the right track but probably unintentionally gave you even more ladywood than you already have. Just think, the totally handsome guy who's grating your face against the pavement while he rams you might just have some of the ol' HIV. And I bet if you're not so shocked that you can actually fit a thought into your head, that's all that you'll be thinking about when he's raping you.
PS: Where do you live and what time do you normally get home? :D

Indeed. The fact that many rapes take place in a violent, non-arousing setting definitely confounds the effect of the sexual aspect.

But, I question the idea that a woman's vagina is truly "dry", and hurting "so bad" during rape. The entrance might be dry, but the inside would have to be wet. Otherwise, the rapist's penis would suffer from the lack of lubrication as well.

When you get a vagina then you can question whether the hurting is 'so bad'.

It's not so much that it's dry, but that it's not nearly lubricated enough and the fact that it expands when the girl is aroused, it goes deeper. Since the vagina is so sensitive, it can hurt a lot if there's a cock being jammed in there when it's not expanded. It can be as little as 3 inches deep when the girl isn't aroused and as deep as 9 inches when she is. But I could be wrong.

Tons of girls have rape fantasies though. Pisses me off.

and might even be trollery,.

And this thread isn't? Well I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and not close it but it'll get merged into the other one.

My ex had a fetish like that too, so one day I attempted to fulfill that fantasy. Basically I grabbed her from behind pulled down her pants and shoved it in, all within about 5 seconds.

Result: she was really turned on but didn't have enough time to lube up, I ended up tearing her a little.

Moral of the story: just make sure she is a little turned on BEFORE you go for it.

Depends on who wants to know.

r u a hawt white boi

yes very hawt white boi

This thread is extending beyond the limits of utter retardedness. I'm pretty sure OP is a troll but for the sake of sopeboxing...

The situation you are describing, OP, is not rape. Rape is when some sick, sadistic bastard gets off on totally violating, humiliating and degrading a person in the worst possible way. It isn't a nice scene where you are just so mindblowingly attractive that the gorgeous male model/fireman/professional soccer player simply cannot resist his urge to have you, and then has his way with you. Generally it goes more like: you are walking home from work late at night, looking over your shoulder, already on edge, when you're blindsided, either by a punch to back of the head, a knife to your back, or perhaps just an arm around your neck, preventing you from screaming for help. The guy is some filthy fucker with a potbelly, greasy hair and a wild look in his eye, and he obviously hasn't shaven or washed, as is clear from the stale odor of sweat and cigarettes that lingers around him like a fog. He slaps you, punches you, kicks you, presses his knife or barrel against your throat and warns you that if you make one wrong move you're dead. His eyes travel lecherously over your body as though he were ogling a buffet before him, he licks his lips and your skin crawls. He rips off your clothing, you struggle and he punches you again, in the stomach. He keeps hitting you until your entire body feels like a giant bruise, he warns you again that he will kill you, and you fill with terror like ice...you don't know what he's going to do to you, in which ways he's going to violate you, if you're still going to be alive when it's over. You have no control over your body, he could do anything to you and you have no power to stop it. Then it begins...I don't think I need to describe to you how pleasant it's not going to be. Real rape isn't rough sex, it's vicious; the purpose is not sexual release, but domination, degradation, to make you feel pain. You lay there with his rough weight pressing down on you, unable to breathe, unable the scream, unable to think...all you can feel is the searing pain between your legs, the steel against your throat, and his eyes boring into yours, and you can see that the terror in your eyes is getting him off. He finishes, fills your body with his disgusting release, letting his monopoly on your body continue even after he's left. You are a husk, an object, a tool for him to use as he pleases, and he makes sure you know it. But you're lucky; after he's raped you, he doesn't kill you, he just beats you up a bit more, and while you're laying there, crying, trying to collect your clothing and cringe away from his blows, he puts on his pants and runs off. Your body doesn't feel like it belongs to you anymore. You are filled with disgust, at yourself and at him. You feel dirty, like no matter how hard you wash you can never get him off of you. People (men, usually) say that they don't understand why rape is so bad, but it's because having every shred of dignity, of control, of your value as a human being viciously torn away from you like that is something that stays with you, changes who you are as a person.

Is this what you fantasize about, OP? If not, don't you dare say that maybe being raped wouldn't be so bad, that it might be a nice looking guy and you'd enjoy it. That's a fucking insult to all the women and girls in the world who endure to most horrific sexual abuse, the most horrible forced taking of someone's dignity and control. Rape fantasies are one thing, but honey there is a world of difference between saying that fantasy rape and reality rape are even remotely in the same league, and that real, honest-to-god rape can ever be tolerable.That is fucking retarded and insulting to all the girls who wander home, their eyes glazed over, and spend two hours in the shower scrubbing themselves but unable to wash the feel of the filth off of their bodies...

reap?