Alright, I've been around here for many years.
Lately, I've seen this board go from good to shit.

Mostly, it's newbs asking about relationships, not getting laid, etc.

Listen, everybody is different.
But I don't think people really want someone who's all desperate.

Guys, gals. Find something to do. A hobby. Something creative. People respect you more for it.
Take up an instrument, and really go deep into it. Find a way to isolate yourself from other people's opinions.

Nothing is cooler than someone that doesn't care what people think. If you do things for yourself, you'll be satisfied.
Not only will you stop caring about being so lonely, and you might even attract a mate.

Seeing as you've been around so long you should know to use the search function before posting. We had this exact same thread only a couple of weeks ago.

Yes this board has suffered recently but then so has the whole of totse. But letting n00bs come in and post crap is part of what makes totse and S&A so good. Remember that today's "OMG How Do I makes out wid a GUUURRRL!!111" n00blet could become tomorrows top poster.

I could name several regulars here over the years who needed banning when they started and now belong to those posters I make a point of reading.

Hell one of my first ever posts on totse was something real dumb, over on NS&H I asked "How do I hack hotmail". Six months later I was being publically praised by the mods for my advice.