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cocacola14
2009-01-04, 21:15
They're getting sad and grieving about someone who never existied I don't get it. Is it just because they were so excited and anticipating a child and then their expectation about having a child isn't gonna happen? I could understand why if it was acualy born and lived and started learing to talk and stuff and then it died, but it's just another person who was never born and never lived at all. How is that sad?

helladamnleet
2009-01-04, 21:22
They're getting sad and grieving about someone who never exitied I don't get it. Is it just because they were so excited and anticipating a child and then their expectation about having a child isn't gonna happen? I could understand why if it was acualy born and lived and started learing to talk and stuff and then it died, but it's just another person who was never born and never lived at all. How is that sad?

You know what?

Get laid, find some girl you really care about, get her pregnant, once the shock wears off and you start getting excited, give me a call (the phone call will be a legally binding verbal agreement the the death of your child by any consequence of my actions will be completely inadmissible in court, and I can not be charged for any death or injury that may occur to the mother, or the child(ren) she may or may not be carrying) and I'll abort the baby for you.

FUCK YOU, and get banned.

cocacola14
2009-01-04, 21:36
Someone didn't take their valium today

cant b bothered
2009-01-04, 23:25
I think a lot for the mother is hormonal tbh.

CotDeath
2009-01-04, 23:33
You know what?

Get laid, find some girl you really care about, get her pregnant, once the shock wears off and you start getting excited, give me a call (the phone call will be a legally binding verbal agreement the the death of your child by any consequence of my actions will be completely inadmissible in court, and I can not be charged for any death or injury that may occur to the mother, or the child(ren) she may or may not be carrying) and I'll abort the baby for you.

FUCK YOU, and get banned.

Best written flame today.
OP:Go away and don't come back. This isn't interesting nor provocative by totse standards.

EDIT:
Oh snap, my username is quite appropriate here. I guess I should make an oocupational joke or something...

mythbuster13
2009-01-05, 00:27
you know what, i think you should

dontneedeyes
2009-01-05, 00:31
:rolleyes: OP, get the fuck out.

mizled
2009-01-05, 00:42
Every sperm is sacred.
Every sperm is great.
If a sperm is wasted,
God gets quite irate...

helladamnleet
2009-01-05, 00:44
Best written flame today.
OP:Go away and don't come back. This isn't interesting nor provocative by totse standards.

EDIT:
Oh snap, my username is quite appropriate here. I guess I should make an oocupational joke or something...

I feel so honored :(

prettypoems
2009-01-05, 03:36
Maybe you should wait until your girlfriend/wife bleeds your unborn child out all over your sheets, then get back at us.

Metaphysicist
2009-01-05, 03:57
I think a lot for the mother is hormonal tbh.


It's not just the females who are affected by something like that. A year before my daughter was born, my wife and I decided to start a family. A couple of months after she went off the pill she got pregnant.

2 or 3 months into the pregnancy she started to spot. A few weeks later she had a miscarriage. It upset me just as much - possibly even more - than it did her.

Losing a child is probably about the worst thing that can happen to anyone. Granted I got over it a lot quicker than I would have had been a case of losing a child after they were born, but it was still one of the worst days of my life.

It's something that someone who have no children can't quite understand - there's no way you can until you do have a kid. No amount of words can convey it either. It's like trying to describe an acid trip to someone who has never tripped. Or trying to describe what sex is like to a virgin - you just can't do it.

Misfit
2009-01-05, 04:00
Wouldn't it be a bit strange if your mom was pregnant for 9 months, went to the hospital to give birth, came back empty handed and didn't give a fuck?

Cpt Death and Destruction
2009-01-05, 04:03
yeah man i agree. its not like it was a real person to begin with. do people get upset when i wank? i might have got a baby out of that, but i didnt and no one gives a fuck. and people who believe in abortion and get upset over a miscarriage are fuckin stupid, "awwww its so bad when a baby dies naturally but it's fine for me to get a human to kill it". pff, thats fucking stupid.

Misfit
2009-01-05, 04:16
I can't believe how stupid some of you are.

Imagine you are a woman and you are pregnant. A fucking human is growing inside of you. You are ready to start a family with your life partner and are psyching yourself up for 9 months to have a baby. To have a human pop out of your vagina. All you can do is prepare and hope your baby comes out alright. All you can do is imagine and wonder the type of life it's going to have. You make heaps of plans, heaps of changes to your diet and lifestyle. You make room for another life. You give part of yourself away to look after this soon-to-be newborn. All you can do is hope it's going to be happy. You have 9 months to do this.

Then what happens? You're in the middle of giving birth and the baby dies. All your expectations, all your worries, all your nervousness, every emotion you went through while in the process of making this baby gets flushed down the toilet and is replaced with utter disappointment and tragedy. Part of you has died.

but srsly ho givs a fuk

PoPcOrN PeOpLe
2009-01-05, 04:22
Every sperm is sacred.
Every sperm is great.
If a sperm is wasted,
God gets quite irate...

Every sperm is wanted.
Every sperm is good.
Eeeeevery sperm is needed,
In your neighborhood...

Metaphysicist
2009-01-05, 06:02
Wouldn't it be a bit strange if your mom was pregnant for 9 months, went to the hospital to give birth, came back empty handed and didn't give a fuck?


Fucked up is this story I read in the paper today. This guy, who was being sued for child support, didn't want to pay it. So he killed his 2 1/2 year old son.

Bukujutsu
2009-01-05, 06:27
Fucked up is this story I read in the paper today. This guy, who was being sued for child support, didn't want to pay it. So he killed his 2 1/2 year old son.

Woah, that's awesome! Hahaha, oh man, really, that's pretty funny.
Edit: link: http://cbs5.com/national/Danny.Plat.crime.2.899552.html

RemadE
2009-01-05, 06:52
Wouldn't it be a bit strange if your mom was pregnant for 9 months, went to the hospital to give birth, came back empty handed and didn't give a fuck?

Personally i'd be quite relieved.

ComradeAsh
2009-01-05, 10:48
Fucked up is this story I read in the paper today. This guy, who was being sued for child support, didn't want to pay it. So he killed his 2 1/2 year old son.

Jaysus.

Cpt Death and Destruction
2009-01-05, 10:54
nigga u guys are little bitches. fuck those fuckers.

NuclearWinter
2009-01-05, 10:59
Fucked up is this story I read in the paper today. This guy, who was being sued for child support, didn't want to pay it. So he killed his 2 1/2 year old son.

Whats the guys totse username?

captain_pants
2009-01-05, 11:08
Whats the guys totse username?

Hehehe.

What the hell :p

chasm69
2009-01-05, 11:10
If you have never been through this like Meta said you can't understand how it feels.

Unless you have a kid and imagine them not being born.

One of my best mates wife lost a baby last month after carrying it to term and the strongest (personality and will wise)
guy I know was broken into pieces and never looks like he will be right again.

And its not after the baby is born you start bonding with it, I cant remember how many nights during the time my ex was pregnant with my son i would lay my head on her belly and just talk to him for hours and hours even before he was the size of a wallet.

And this is coming from a very heartless human being that is by all reports incapable of feeling the emotional range of a slime covered rock.

And I read that article as well Meta pretty fucked, He looked like a crackhead any way how much support was he trying to get out of?!?!!

Edit: $4,000USD Fuck me that's all his kid was worth to him not even a months wage...

Name's Taken
2009-01-05, 11:43
Maybe you should wait until your girlfriend/wife bleeds your unborn child out all over your sheets, then get back at us.

So people get annoyed because it's a waste of sheets?
Why don't they just do it on the toilet or in a bath or something like that?

ComradeAsh
2009-01-05, 13:57
Edit: $4,000USD Fuck me that's all his kid was worth to him not even a months wage...

What kind of decent ass job do you think that nigger has?

PoPcOrN PeOpLe
2009-01-05, 14:46
So people get annoyed because it's a waste of sheets?
Why don't they just do it on the toilet or in a bath or something like that?

Bath: No, you would need to fish all the chunky bits out afterward that didn't fit down the drain. The toilet is a good idea though

Cpt Death and Destruction
2009-01-05, 20:40
Bath: No, you would need to fish all the chunky bits out afterward that didn't fit down the drain. The toilet is a good idea though
I always wondered if women flushed it after a miscarriage in a toilet.

Bukujutsu
2009-01-06, 00:52
And its not after the baby is born you start bonding with it, I cant remember how many nights during the time my ex was pregnant with my son i would lay my head on her belly and just talk to him for hours and hours even before he was the size of a wallet.


Dude, you're a pussy. Furthermore I would like to state that that act is retarded. I would never copulate with a woman(or man, but I'm not into that, although if I used protection and it would benefit me enough...) unless it would benefit me significantly and I would never do it without using protection unless she had been tested for STDs the same day and was using birth control. In the rare chance that a female became pregnant due to my actions I would do all possible to cause it's death. I would begin with a healthy dose of psychological manipulation, and if that failed move on to substances that could induce a miscarriage, and physical means if necessary. If all those failed(unlikely) and I was forced to pay for *it* then I would certainly murder it if I thought I could get away with it. Children are disgusting, only the insane and foolish would want them.

satanicbusdriver
2009-01-06, 01:39
Children are disgusting, only the insane and foolish would want them.

So like, you were born as an adult or something?

chasm69
2009-01-06, 08:25
So like, you were born as an adult or something?

No, Can't you tell he still is a child.

Probably never even gotten his end in so he figured writing that post would at least being to make us think that he had.

Well that was a huge waste of time and effort on your part.

And as for me being a pussy, Incorrect or I would have been having the baby make sure you pay attention in sex ed when they teach you in a few years.

Name's Taken
2009-01-06, 09:44
Bath: No, you would need to fish all the chunky bits out afterward that didn't fit down the drain. The toilet is a good idea though

Yeah, I suppose so, but would there really be that many big chunks anyway?
Unless the baby is nearly done, in which case flushing it down the toilet could be a problem as well.

PoPcOrN PeOpLe
2009-01-06, 12:59
Yeah, I suppose so, but would there really be that many big chunks anyway?
Unless the baby is nearly done, in which case flushing it down the toilet could be a problem as well.

Flush it anyway then fill the toilet with drain-O in, that should dissolve any blockages.

Name's Taken
2009-01-06, 14:01
Flush it anyway then fill the toilet with drain-O in, that should dissolve any blockages.

http://marieconbgdlr.files.wordpress.com/2007/09/eating_babies.JPG

:confused:

zuperxtreme
2009-01-06, 14:53
http://marieconbgdlr.files.wordpress.com/2007/09/eating_babies.JPG

:confused:

...what?

why?

PieGirl
2009-01-06, 18:02
I'd be upset if a little person died inside me
cos it would be gross :/

Xandre
2009-01-06, 18:35
I hope OP's significant other (If such an tactless, insensitive cunt can get one) miscarries.

Both for his understanding and the irony.

Name's Taken
2009-01-07, 08:05
...what?

why?

Waste not, want not.

PoPcOrN PeOpLe
2009-01-07, 11:11
I'd be upset if a little person died inside me
cos it would be gross :/

So you would only be upset cause it's "gross"? Not because someone who could have grown up to be the next president died through no fault of his/her own and never got to experience the opportunity to fulfill their dreams?

Mellow_Fellow
2009-01-07, 18:05
Maybe you should wait until your girlfriend/wife bleeds your unborn child out all over your sheets, then get back at us.

Innit. God some of youse are right fucking mongs.

Elsrick
2009-01-07, 20:14
What a retarded fucking thread, plus an obvious troll. I'm very disappointed in you all.

Bukujutsu
2009-01-07, 22:34
So you would only be upset cause it's "gross"? Not because someone who could have grown up to be the next president died through no fault of his/her own and never got to experience the opportunity to fulfill their dreams?

Honestly, that's such a stupid argument. Why stop there, if your parents had never had sex you would've never been born. Should unprotected sex be banned? What's the bloody difference between a fetus and sperm, neither of them are really conscious or at least significantly intelligent. I won't bother arguing anymore, currently there is no greater good than cookies.

wires
2009-01-07, 22:44
If you're a troll - it worked

If you're not - I can't possibly put into words how utterly devastating it is. It's just impossible to describe to someone that doesn't have a clue. It's awful for both partners