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doct0r_4rmo
2009-01-05, 00:20
So me and this girl have been flirting back and forth for a couple weeks now. It's become evident she likes me - at least that's what i think.

Anyway, is there any way of subtly and appropriately saying to a girl 'look is there any chance we're gonna have sex in the near future before i spend more of my time with you?'

I quite like her but its getting to the point now, that if something doesn't happen I'm just gonna move the fuck on.

Thanks.

Chichi
2009-01-05, 00:24
You don't ask her if it's going to happen, you make it happen.

Right now she's passive. She has the potential to fuck you, but it's not going to happen by asking her.

She can't answer yes because it's only a potential thing at the moment.

You want it to happen, you have to do it the old fashion way.

:o

Chichi
2009-01-05, 00:25
That made no sense.


She wants you to make her want to fuck you. :confused:

SomeLowLife
2009-01-05, 00:29
Silently unzip your pants, whip out your mighty genitalia, raise one eyebrow and begin continuously elbowing her in the stomach while going, Eh? Eh? Eh?

Keep it up until she eventually gives in and starts the fellatio.

By far the quickest way to get your willy wet in my humble experience.

In all seriousness though, have you asked her on a date or just to hang out? If you continuously do the right thing, eventually you will get laid. Or are you just constantly flirting with her without actually making a move?

doct0r_4rmo
2009-01-05, 00:51
Heres the deal, it's kind of like the whole flirting thing but when I go to make plans she makes an excuse up. Well she has twice now. Kinda getting a mixed signals vibe and its made me pissed.

Chichi
2009-01-05, 00:55
Heres the deal, it's kind of like the whole flirting thing but when I go to make plans she makes an excuse up. Well she has twice now. Kinda getting a mixed signals vibe and its made me pissed.

Was she really hardcore flirting on you, or is she naturally just one of those girls with a flirty demeanor and acts that way toward everyone?

There is a chance she has no interest in you at all.

Malkog
2009-01-05, 00:59
Heres the deal, it's kind of like the whole flirting thing but when I go to make plans she makes an excuse up. Well she has twice now. Kinda getting a mixed signals vibe and its made me pissed.

Well she's obviously interested then.

doct0r_4rmo
2009-01-05, 01:04
Was she really hardcore flirting on you, or is she naturally just one of those girls with a flirty demeanor and acts that way toward everyone?

There is a chance she has no interest in you at all.

I'm pretty fucking sure she does, but you're making me question myself. The flirting I feel has been beyond just fun.

If she doesn't like me she has actively led me on.

Any way to find out concrete whether she likes me? (without asking, don't want to seem like a beta male)

EDIT: Also, I should add, she's very interested in seeing me in more social surroundings, but its not the same as a one on one thing.

Chichi
2009-01-05, 01:24
Just tell her you're interested, and if she isn't then make her feel guilty for leading you on.

win-win. :cool:

notamuppet
2009-01-05, 02:34
Just tell her you're interested, and if she isn't then make her feel guilty for leading you on.

win-win. :cool:

your forgetting that all women are heartless demons who dont feel guilty

Chichi
2009-01-05, 02:48
your forgetting that all women are heartless demons who dont feel guilty

If you're a total fucking dumbass who doesn't know the art of the guilt trip. :mad:

xilikeeggs0
2009-01-05, 05:26
I'm pretty fucking sure she does, but you're making me question myself. The flirting I feel has been beyond just fun.

If she doesn't like me she has actively led me on.

Any way to find out concrete whether she likes me? (without asking, don't want to seem like a beta male)

EDIT: Also, I should add, she's very interested in seeing me in more social surroundings, but its not the same as a one on one thing.

What you have to do is ask your best friend to ask her best friend if she likes you. Then have him report back to you. If she says yes, then talk to her at recess tomorrow. That's the key, you have to wait until recess. If you talk to her at lunch, you'll seem too desperate and she'll realize that you're a beta male. Alpha males always wait until recess.

Just ask her, pussy. Don't believe that 'beta male' bullshit.

Banana Blunt
2009-01-05, 06:47
Simple answer - no

Cant outright ask her
And
She cant do the same

Depending on a variety of factors, you both will inch, hint, move toward overt intimacy

Affect
2009-01-05, 08:57
This sounds like a no to mean. I would ignore her, and see how she reacts. Live your life like normal in the mean time.

Genetically Superior bro.

Stendhal syndrome
2009-01-05, 23:45
You want it to happen, you have to do it the old fashion way.

:o

Rape.

Mr.Dave
2009-01-06, 06:20
Start talking/harmlessly flirting to her female friends more than you talk to her, it doesn't matter if she is the hottest one of her group or the one that looks like a sloth.

If you talk to the hotter girl, she's gonna get jealous, as well as insecure about her own looks so she is going to have to try harder to get you, thus ending the hard to get bullshit.

If you talk to the sloth, then she's going to be like "WTF, what does my comparison friend have that I don't?" So she'll start paying more attention to you. Or you might be fucked and end up with the sloth.



Moral of the story, if a girl is playing hard to get, don't just play back, you gotta kick it up a notch. If you blatently *sp?* make it look like she's no big deal, and that her friends will suffice, then she will be on your nuts.

Pwnd.