View Full Version : Beefing With My Bosses - Who Is Wrong Here?
DOCTORGONZO409
2009-01-05, 01:27
...So I just got into it with one of my bosses over the phone about me not coming to work today because I'm sick. Well, they were fine with me not coming to work because I got people to cover, but they're pissed that I'm not coming in for this weekly meeting after closing tonight.
I don't feel that it's that important, because it's just the same bullshit every week (not that I said that to her) and I run the most rinky-dink department in the building anyway (I work in retail). I don't even get quarterly bonuses like all the other supervisors do when they hit their number goals, so basically I feel like I bust my ass in there out of the goodness of my heart. Whether the store sinks or swims, I make the same hourly rate, which is barely what some of the floor salesmen (not even supervisors) make in other departments. To be honest, I doubt that they could find another sucker to do my job as well as I do for the same pay.
So I'm sick, and I've been in bed or in my computer chair all day. I already came in sick once right before Christmas when I didn't want to, and then only for three bullshit hours because after those I was at 40 for the week, and the bosses don't let us get overtime. One of my bosses is pissed because I won't come in for this meeting, which I don't think is that crucial.
Then she started telling me all this shit about how poorly my department is doing (which I sincerely doubt) but at the same time this is because they stick most of the shitty people who get hired in my department. My basic point is that I can't be there 24/7 to do things right myself, and I can't force them to do things right when I'm not there. Then she said that her and myself and another boss are going to have to sit down and have a talk next time I come in, and I just said "ok". This all went down over text messages.
tl;dr - I may be about to lose/quit my job for disrespecting one of my bosses and not going to this meeting.
Any advice? What would you guys do/have done?
Black people?
2009-01-05, 01:36
muder/suicide
Your boss signs your paychecks. If he says you need to go in for a meeting, you go. Disrespecting your boss makes about as much sense as spitting at a cop when you get pulled over. If you're a supervisor of your department you should know what happens when people disrespect their superiors and refuse to show up for work.
Complain to your companies Human Resources dept. that she has made lewd comments towards you while alone together and has been pressuring you to have sex with her.
Cytosine
2009-01-05, 04:03
To be honest, your boss sounds like a complete bitch whore.
However, I would've gone to that goddamn meeting. By lipping off you've not only made things worse, but given them actual grounds to discipline you in the future.
So I'd have gone to that meeting... But not on antibiotics, or anything else. I would've been a disgusting, disease-ridden worm that fouls up the entire atmosphere. Infect EVERYONE. Hey, it's not your fault. That dumb bitch ordered you in.
If you have a union handbook, read it. Do your job by the book, and do it WELL. Be a model cash manager (btw, how the fuck can your department be doing "poorly"?), and if they fire you go to your union and sue their asses off.
But don't be a smart ass. The economy sucks balls, and no one wants to be unemployed.
Best of luck.
DOCTORGONZO409
2009-01-05, 04:27
Complain to your companies Human Resources dept. that she has made lewd comments towards you while alone together and has been pressuring you to have sex with her.
You know, it's funny you should mention that, because we've hooked up once before. As near as I can tell, she's a total whore...She has a boyfriend but apparently doesn't give much of a fuck about him. Her attitude seems to be that it's her world, and we're just living in it. I'm pretty sure she's fucked around with some of the other male supervisors as well.
She came up to me a couple weeks ago and asked if I'd ever tell anyone about what happened between me and her and when I said 'no' she said, "Good...because you know I could lose my job."
It was like music to my fucking ears. I wanted to ask her to say it again. It's sort of like my panic button; if she gets too rough on me, I can call HR and she can kiss her 60-70K a year job she worked like five years for goodbye.
Oh, and I went to the goddamn meeting; very little of it concerned my department and I literally only opened my mouth like twice, but if it saves me hassle later on in the week, it was worth it.
Aquabania
2009-01-05, 04:50
where do you work nigga?
DOCTORGONZO409
2009-01-05, 05:07
A major retail electronics store with an alliterative name.
AssMuffin
2009-01-05, 05:15
A major retail electronics store with an alliterative name.
Circuit City? For some reason I have a feeling I know you.
DOCTORGONZO409
2009-01-05, 05:21
Circuit City? For some reason I have a feeling I know you.
Could be...I'd rather not say, exactly XD It's irrelevant for the purpose of the discussion.
xilikeeggs0
2009-01-05, 05:29
Circuit City? For some reason I have a feeling I know you.
I was thinking Best Buy.
DOCTORGONZO409
2009-01-05, 16:03
No one has anything to add? Should I quit my shitty job? Blackmail my whore manager? Stick it out in hopes of getting a better position? Go back to school?
Keep the job, but start shopping around for a new one.
Regardless, go into HR and talk to them about a "career path". Ask them if they have any advice for you.
I was thinking Best Buy.
Wtf I thought you were gone. :mad:
Your boss signs your paychecks. If he says you need to go in for a meeting, you go. Disrespecting your boss makes about as much sense as spitting at a cop when you get pulled over. If you're a supervisor of your department you should know what happens when people disrespect their superiors and refuse to show up for work.
This. Go to the fucking meeting, it's not that bad.
zuperxtreme
2009-01-06, 11:03
Need the money? Suck it up.
Don't give a shit? Tell 'em to fuck off.
Personally, I'm glad that I work in such a flexible environment with an awesome boss. I really couldn't stand one of those power hungry idiots that just because they're "The manager/boss" they think they're better than you. Fuck that.
Also, blackmailing? What you got? ;)
infidelguy
2009-01-07, 00:38
I think its halarious how the word beefing has actually entered the american vernacular. The other day i was watching the news the news reporter was like " apparently the 2 boys had a beef which eventually escalated into blah blah blah"
hahahahahhahah to me itll always be a nigger slang word, and i laugh everytime i hear it used legitimately.
The Great Flood of 2008
2009-01-07, 00:50
I would be really weirded out if my boss sent me a text message.
zuperxtreme
2009-01-07, 00:57
I would be really weirded out if my boss sent me a text message.
What's so weird about it?
Ha ha ha ha ha, check out this bizarre
rapper style used by me, the B.I.G.
I put my key, you put your key in, money we'll be seeing
Will reach the fucking ceiling, check, check it
My Calico been cocked (uh-huh) this rap Alfred Hitchcock
drop top notch player hating won't stop (uhh)
This instant rappers too persistant
Quick to spit Biggie name on shit, make my name taste
like ass when you speak it, see me in the street
your jewelry you can keep it, that'll be our little secret
See me, B that is, I that is, G whiz
Motherfuckers still in my biz
Don't they know my nigga Gutter fucking kidnip kids? (uhh)
Fuck 'em in the ass, throw 'em over the bridge (ooh)
That's how it is, my shit is laid out (what)
Fuck that beef shit, that shit is played out (played out)
You all got to go, all I make is one phone call
All you disappear by tomorrow
All your guns is borrowed, I don't feel sorrow
Actually, your man passed the gat to me, now check this
What's beef? Beef is when you need two gats to go to sleep
Beef is when your moms ain't safe up in the streets
Beef is when I see you
Guaranteed to be an ICU, one more time
What's beef? Beef is when you make your enemies start your Jeep
Beef is when you roll no less than thirty deep
Beef is when I see you
Guaranteed to be an ICU, check it
I done smoked with the best of em (uh-huh) shot at the rest of 'em (uh-huh)
Was about a hundred or more, maybe less of 'em
Got my rocks off, that nigga from the Brook just be
whylin on you just be, styling on you (you're so crazy)
When I tried to warn you what your eyes fucked up
Now I cleared them shits with hits, you wanna fucking bitch (mmm)
Pardon my French but ah, sometimes I get kinda
peeved at these, weak MC's (don't stop)
with the supreme baller like,
lyrics I call 'em like I see 'em G
You all niggas sound like me (yeah)
You all was grimy in the early nineties, far behind me
It ain't hard to find me number one with the booyaka (booyaka)
Gimme the Remi and the chronic ain't no telling what I do to you (I do to you)
It's obvious the game's new to you (new to you)
Take them ends you make (ehehe)
and spend 'em on a tutor hah, one shot, I'm through with you
What's beef? Beef is when you need two gats to go to sleep (don't sleep)
Beef is when your moms ain't safe up in the streets (ain't safe)
Beef is when I see you
Guaranteed to be an ICU (I see you) one more time
What's beef? (What's beef) Beef is when you make your enemies start your
Jeep (Start my Jeep)
Beef is when you roll no less than thirty deep (thirty deep)
Beef is when I see you
Guaranteed to be an ICU, check it (I see you)
There'll be nothing but smooth sailing (sailing)
When I spit shots, now your crew's bailing (bailing)
All I got is heat and tough talk for you (uh-huh)
Tie you up, cut your balls off just to use (ooh)
Man listen straight torture, look what that slick shit bought you
A first class ticket to Lucife, real name Cristopher
Watch me set it off like Vivica
Here lies your demise, close your eyes (uh-huh)
Think good thoughts, die while your skin start to glisten
Pale blue hands get cold, your soul's risen
It's bad cause I just begun, we'll make the real bad
now we're having fun (aha ha!)
What's beef? (What's beef?) Beef is when you need two gats to go to sleep
(Don't sleep)
Beef is when your moms ain't safe up in the streets (ain't safe)
Beef is when I see you
Guaranteed to be an ICU, one more time (I see you)
What's beef? (What's beef?) Beef is when you make your enemies start your Jeep
(Start my Jeep)
Beef is when you roll no less than thirty deep (thirty deep)
Beef is when I see you (I see you)
Guaranteed to be an ICU, and I'm through
(Yeah, and I'm through)
Uhhh, uhhh
It's like that
(Now ask yourself, do you really, know what beef is?)
Like that
(Then ask yourself)
Uhh
(Do you really, want beef?)
Like that, like that [echoes]
(Ahahaha! Yeah, I like that)
(Big Nash, hit me baby, on and on and on and on)
(Bad Boy)
(You all know what it is)
(Shit, I don't want no beef, aha!)
Ed Lister
2009-01-07, 02:18
You are both wrong using text message to communicate to one another regarding employment matters. What the fuck?
ArgonPlasma2000
2009-01-07, 03:56
Imma come down there and visit every single electronics stores and burn the place down. :mad: I know where you live! :mad: :mad: :mad:
muder/suicide
This is the objectively correct answer. Delivered in the first post no less! Also, don't forget your molotovs and whatever else.
Numberjumbo
2009-01-07, 04:31
td'dr
Too read, didn't read.
(Shit, I don't want no beef, aha!)
Word is bond?
DOCTORGONZO409
2009-01-07, 20:56
Also, blackmailing? What you got? ;)
Read the thread, numbnuts - we hooked up back in the Fall. Strictly verboten by company policy between our pay grades. What really pisses me off is all the shit she talked back then about how awesome I was, and all these promotions she wanted to give me, and how all the other supervisors were worthless...I knew it wouldn't come to pass, but it's still a pretty flagrant piece of cunt-ery.
Imma come down there and visit every single electronics stores and burn the place down. :mad: I know where you live! :mad: :mad: :mad:
Shiiiiiiiit.
VinMetal666
2009-01-08, 01:40
A wise man once said "Unnecessary beef is more cows to breed". And goddamn was that a good ass verse.
el reformador
2009-01-08, 02:16
A wise man once said "Unnecessary beef is more cows to breed". And goddamn was that a good ass verse.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ug75diEyiA0
"wheres the beef? between your legs"
lolz
blackmail. whore boss, lolz
dont come in for the meeting or her stupid ass sit down meeting with other boss.
call HR and complain that she has been sexually harassing you. i would go into work and record her bitching at you, and then edit it to sound like somehting BAD. then call HR again.
i seen your in Mississippi. aint to many jerbs down there, but there is ALWAYS another place to work.
DOCTORGONZO409
2009-01-09, 02:53
Bumping for more opinions and an update - we're not really speaking to one another any more. It's nice XD
ArgonPlasma2000
2009-01-09, 03:15
but there is ALWAYS another place to work.
He can get a gubmint jerb with me, and I can burn the place down. :mad: :mad: :mad:
Naa, jk lawls.
There was also some other totsean from Calhoun City, though I haven't seen him posting in a long ass time. He was cilling at Carver Point, too, once, so I could ave dropped in if I wasn't busy as fuck that weekend. Ohh well.
Lol at the copious amounts of commas. (sammy adams is good :3 )