So this story leads to last Tuesday, where she cancelled a date for the 3rd time in a row, the other times because she had family stuff to do, and this time because we were double dating and the other girl was sick. She told me to call her back in the message, cause I was asleep until noon, so when I did I asked her why she wanted me to call her back. I was hoping to hear her suggest that the two of us go do something that night instead, but all she said was, "just wanted to know you got my message." That pissed me off a great deal. So I said "ya I got your message," and hung up on her. She didn't call back like she usually does when she knows I'm pissed. All she did was text me good night that night.

The following days she just texted me whats up one day, or messaged me on facebook, which I just half assedly answered because I didn't know if I wanted to totally end it with her. She hasn't call me every night like she usually does. Neither have I made an effort to talk to her without her saying something to me first. So I'm not really sure where we are at right now. However, she did ask me yesterday if I still wanted to go with her to some musical or something(free tickets), so I guess she still wants to be with me? idk

I really didn't think I gave 2 shits about her and that I was pretty much fed up with her and her cancelling bullshit. I know I don't deserve that and there are plenty of other bitches I know that want my cock juice right now, so I just planned on walking. But for some reason, every night, I hope she calls me. I guess I really do have feelings for her? I don't want to tell her I miss her or that shit, cause I want her to know she can't treat me like shit and expect me to stay with her. Any advice?

Why didn't you suggest an alternative?

You're the man in the relationship, lead. Why were you waiting for her to suggest an alternative? Did you get your balls get cut off?

Stop being a bitch, if she's canceling just to avoid you then drop her. If her reasons are genuine, and you're not man enough to lead the interactions then shape up buddy.

Maybe she just got tired of you playing games.

You know, like pretending you're mad at her and waiting for her to call you back and say "I'm sorry, I love you." etc etc.

That's how I ruined my relationship. She eventually just got sick of it.

...:cool:

I agree. Call her up, and YOU plan a date for the two of you.

I'M the bad guy? o.0

I'M the bad guy? o.0

No, not necessarily. However there ARE changes that you could make to better the situation like the others said. Sitting around waiting for her call, waiting for her to make a suggestion, wtf is with that? She is probably waiting for you to call her. Maybe she realized she is the one calling every night and decided to let up a little bit and see if you would call, but now you're making it seem like you don't care. I understand your idea of not telling her you miss her or anything, I agree with that. But, you have to make an effort if you want this to work out at all. Oh and by my judgement, yes you have feelings for her.

So what do I do now? Lol call her up and be like "Hey let's go do something, even though I haven't talked to you really in a week since I hung up on you." Not sure that will go down too well. All I can think of is playing it off, which will probably piss her off, or be truthful with some kind of apology or some shit idfk.

So what do I do now? Lol call her up and be like "Hey let's go do something, even though I haven't talked to you really in a week since I hung up on you." Not sure that will go down too well. All I can think of is playing it off, which will probably piss her off, or be truthful with some kind of apology or some shit idfk.

Well it's up to you at this point because you're the one in the relationship and you're the one that has let it go a week without communication. But I guess I can give you some options. If you're looking to keep the relationship going, obviously whatever you do you're going to have to get the communication going again. Give her a call. The girl doesn't always have to call the guy. Call her up and if you know that playing it off will make her mad, bring up what happened last week. See how she feels about it, and then let her know how you feel about it. If she wants this relationship to last as much as you do, and you guys know how to talk to eachother, things should pretty much work out from there.

I gotta say, either be a man and talk to her, or end the relationship for good. It sounds like it's already going down that path. Why didn't you ask her to go out when she canceled because of her friend? What caused that?

I gotta say, either be a man and talk to her, or end the relationship for good. It sounds like it's already going down that path. Why didn't you ask her to go out when she canceled because of her friend? What caused that?

Yeah seriously man, you gotta talk to her if you want your relationship to work. Don't be a little bitch and hang up on her, be like "Oh, I thought you would've wanted to hang out" or whatever.

Well I had thought she wanted to hang out the other times she wanted to go do something then cancelled too. I always thought if you wanted something enough, then it gets priority.

Well I had thought she wanted to hang out the other times she wanted to go do something then cancelled too. I always thought if you wanted something enough, then it gets priority.

If you want to kill someone really badly, would you make it a priority?

If you want to kill someone really badly, would you make it a priority?

Doing that and setting aside time to see each other is completely different. Whatever

Doing that and setting aside time to see each other is completely different. Whatever

No.

Objectively you are incorrect. Don't backpedal please.

What ever helps you sleep at night dude.

So it's too late tonight to call her, because she works late on Mondays and is probably already asleep. I'm going to give her a call tomorrow I guess.

What ever helps you sleep at night dude.

Nice bail out, pussy.

Nice bail out, pussy.

What are you trying to say anyway? If I wanted to kill someone really bad and was actually going to do it, yeah I would make it a priority...

So I called her last night, and we chatted it up, shot the shit, whatever. I wanted to make sure things weren't weird before I told her I wanted to take her out before our date on the 11th. But then she said she had would have to call me back (idk why) and that I better answer my phone. Well bitch never called back. The feelings I was developing for her and miss her seem to be dying as she makes me even more agitated....I mean seriously it's not that hard. I have crap friends that call me back and will do things for me even if I barely ever hang out with them. Yet this bitch is suppose to be my gf and I can't even count on her.

Tell her how you feel. If it's an unacceptable behavior, leave her.