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whocares123
2009-01-05, 21:04
Since being dumped by a longterm girlfriend I loved, my views toward romance and all that shit have turned highly cynical. I now hate women with their lies and trickery and emo games, but am still attracted to their tits, asses, and vaginas. My sexual desire is through the roof and I've got no regular outlet for it. My change in attitude towards women has gone so far to allow me to make advances on my ex a few times, even though after she says shit like "we shouldn't have done that. I feel bad now." Even now as I type this I am fighting the urge to masturbate, which I can't do because I am at the library haha. I probably masturbate about 3 times a day, more on the weekends. Whenever I see a girl who has at least started puberty, my eyes go directly to the ass and tits and I desire to fuck her. This is funny because before I never really noticed other girls when I had my girlfriend, even if she wasn't with me. Hell even fat girls have begun to get my attention as I grow curious as to what sex with one would be like. I've moved thicker, heavier girls (not obese) into the "attractive" category in my mind.

I don't have any prospects for dating lined up. I'm alone in every sense of the word. I've thought about escort services but don't know if I could ever risk disease or getting arrested. I want sex more than ever now, but I feel like it will be like Christmas, and once it's over, I will feel worse. I don't feel like I have the energy to go through the motions of "talking" to new girls, trying to pick off the desperate ones and do all that shit where you joke around and gain their trust and pay for their popcorn at movies...god. I just want bang bang bang.

Chichi
2009-01-05, 21:14
Maybe you feel hurt because your girlfriend dumped you, and now you want to get back at women in general by dominating them sexually.

:confused:

whocares123
2009-01-05, 21:23
I don't feel hurt anymore though. That was a couple months ago. I'm over it. The only thing I miss about her is having an attractive girl at my disposal to feel up or get a blowjob from.

Fanglekai
2009-01-05, 21:37
Sexual frustration is no fun, but there's no reason to whine about it on totse. You're horny, so go masturbate or get laid instead of posting.

satit
2009-01-05, 21:38
Maybe your just a horny bastard, who misses getting a quick blow.

SomeLowLife
2009-01-05, 21:47
Whenever I see a girl who has at least started puberty, my eyes go directly to the ass and tits and I desire to fuck her.

Welcome to having a penis.

Some Choad
2009-01-05, 22:13
Maybe your just a horny bastard, who misses getting a quick blow.

Point out the obvious, what an idiot.

whocares123
2009-01-05, 22:42
Maybe your just a horny bastard, who misses getting a quick blow.

Maybe. I was hoping there was something more to it though.

This is all new to me.

satit
2009-01-05, 23:23
yeah
i wouldn't worry about it though
find a new relationship and if you still feel the same way then i'd start to worry.

WritingANovel
2009-01-05, 23:33
Sexual frustration is no fun, but there's no reason to whine about it on totse. You're horny, so go masturbate or get laid instead of posting.

Kindly refrain from telling people what they should or should not be doing on totse.

Also, you realize that I could have just turned that on you and said, "there's no reason for you to post shit on totse, you are an ass, now go masturbate or get laid instead of posting", right?

Malkog
2009-01-05, 23:42
You're in the library man, people let their kids run wild in there. It should be clear how to relieve your sexual frustration. Grab the first pubescent girl you see.

WritingANovel
2009-01-05, 23:47
You're in the library man, people let their kids run wild in their. It should be clear how to relieve your sexual frustration. Grab the first pubescent girl you see.

That wasn't even funny.

Just a waste of bandwidth and people's time.

Malkog
2009-01-06, 00:10
That wasn't even funny.

Just a waste of bandwidth and people's time.

Eh? Maybe I phrased it badly, I probably shouldn't have used the word "grab." It wasn't supposed to be a joke. Teenage girls are easy to get with, especially ones that go to libraries because of the low self-esteem that often comes with being vaguely intelligent/bookish. Obviously it depends on the OP's age, but as a quick release valve, you could have worse.

WritingANovel
2009-01-06, 00:32
I see.

Sorry about my harsh language, then.

Fanglekai
2009-01-06, 00:33
Kindly refrain from telling people what they should or should not be doing on totse.

Also, you realize that I could have just turned that on you and said, "there's no reason for you to post shit on totse, you are an ass, now go masturbate or get laid instead of posting", right?

1. You're telling me what to do.
2. I wasn't complaining about being horny.
3. No one gives a shit what you think.

I remember back when you weren't a troll. The first time you posted a picture people were actually nice to you. I never understood why you became a troll, but you're just that, a worthless, not funny troll.

Nightside Eclipse
2009-01-06, 04:33
Since being dumped by a longterm girlfriend I loved, my views toward romance and all that shit have turned highly cynical. I now hate women with their lies and trickery and emo games, but am still attracted to their tits, asses, and vaginas. My sexual desire is through the roof and I've got no regular outlet for it. My change in attitude towards women has gone so far to allow me to make advances on my ex a few times, even though after she says shit like "we shouldn't have done that. I feel bad now." Even now as I type this I am fighting the urge to masturbate, which I can't do because I am at the library haha. I probably masturbate about 3 times a day, more on the weekends. Whenever I see a girl who has at least started puberty, my eyes go directly to the ass and tits and I desire to fuck her. This is funny because before I never really noticed other girls when I had my girlfriend, even if she wasn't with me. Hell even fat girls have begun to get my attention as I grow curious as to what sex with one would be like. I've moved thicker, heavier girls (not obese) into the "attractive" category in my mind.

I don't have any prospects for dating lined up. I'm alone in every sense of the word. I've thought about escort services but don't know if I could ever risk disease or getting arrested. I want sex more than ever now, but I feel like it will be like Christmas, and once it's over, I will feel worse. I don't feel like I have the energy to go through the motions of "talking" to new girls, trying to pick off the desperate ones and do all that shit where you joke around and gain their trust and pay for their popcorn at movies...god. I just want bang bang bang.

Hypertestosteronism?
Too much testosterone production?

whocares123
2009-01-06, 05:23
yeah
i wouldn't worry about it though
find a new relationship and if you still feel the same way then i'd start to worry.

absolutely no desire to find a new relationship right now.

too much testosterone? why would that happen?...

Nightside Eclipse
2009-01-06, 05:28
too much testosterone? why would that happen?...

What do you think drives you? Get an anti-testosterone drug and see what happens to your sex drive then.

If I remember it from my physiology course correctly that is...

benpari
2009-01-06, 05:54
The obvious answer to this thread is hookers. Lots and lots of hookers.

speters17
2009-01-06, 22:26
What do you think drives you? Get an anti-testosterone drug and see what happens to your sex drive then.

If I remember it from my physiology course correctly that is...

get him to start popping oestrogen like theres no tomorrow.

speters17
2009-01-06, 22:28
get him to start popping oestrogen like theres no tomorrow.

and for ameritards thats how english people spell it. in english. before i get some faggot comment about learning to spell.

WritingANovel
2009-01-06, 22:35
1. You're telling me what to do.
2. I wasn't complaining about being horny.
3. No one gives a shit what you think.

I remember back when you weren't a troll. The first time you posted a picture people were actually nice to you. I never understood why you became a troll, but you're just that, a worthless, not funny troll.

You are probably right.

gadzooks
2009-01-06, 22:55
What do you think drives you? Get an anti-testosterone drug and see what happens to your sex drive then.

If I remember it from my physiology course correctly that is...

I find it highly unlikely that he would suffer any drastic physiological symptoms from a break up.

Unless maybe he always had high testosterone, but the fact that he was constantly getting some because he was in a relationship kept it at bay.

But it sounds like things weren't like this before the relationship, so it has to be psychological...

gadzooks
2009-01-06, 22:59
By the way, pretty much the same exact thing happened around the time I got out of my last relationship, which was, sadly, 3 years ago, and my sex drive hasn't really gone down at all since then.

But I have my own psychological reasons for assuming that there were probably other contributing factors, at least for my case.

whocares123
2009-01-07, 19:32
By the way, pretty much the same exact thing happened around the time I got out of my last relationship, which was, sadly, 3 years ago, and my sex drive hasn't really gone down at all since then.

But I have my own psychological reasons for assuming that there were probably other contributing factors, at least for my case.

Go on?

gadzooks
2009-01-08, 07:29
Go on?

Well, come to think of it, the two might be more related than I thought. Basically, I started to obsess over the idea of not being able to get laid. And then that led to me focusing more on sex than I was before that particular points in my life.

I guess it could very well have to do with the fact that I went for a decent amount of time where I never even had to think about getting any, as it was always just there.

whocares123
2009-01-08, 17:59
I guess it could very well have to do with the fact that I went for a decent amount of time where I never even had to think about getting any, as it was always just there.

I think that's been the case for more years of my life than years without. These times are like dark ages for me. The last big one was in middle school, haha. I can remember how much that sucked and I wonder if it had anything to do with my depression at the time.

Kryptonite420
2009-01-08, 18:19
two words: FAT CHICKS

You can pick these up at mcdonalds, cvs, and even your local library! A fair amount of them are pretty easy to fuck, and, even better, they try harder! You can bait them with Jimmy Dean products or low-grade pastries that come in plastic a wrapper. Most of them are more sexually starved than your masterbating ass.

Stick'em and rip'em mother fucker.

Nefret
2009-01-08, 18:48
This happened to me not too long ago. Everyone told me when I started seeing someone new my sex drive would abate. However, I've been seeing someone for the last 5 months and if anything my sex drive has gone up.

slim-ov-derby
2009-01-08, 20:18
This happened to me before, I ended up having sex with a 10 year old; I was 14 at the time though.

Whatever you do, don't wank. Keep that stuff to yourself for a while, you'll be horny as fuck and desire more to flirt with girls/grab the bull by the horns and go for it with them. It always worked with me.

I actually found wanking makes me feel worse if I do it after a break up, if I fuck another girl I'm fine after that for a while though and can wank and not feel such a loser afterwards, than what I would if I'd jsut broke with someone and then wanked it to compensate.

Just go downtown with your friends a bit tipsy to get you lightened up, get off your tits down town in the clubs, flirt, have a laugh; just have fun, you'll end up getting laid as well (as long as you don't expect it) and won't feel like shit after. Trust me.

Lazarus
2009-01-09, 00:55
Kindly refrain from telling people what they should or should not be doing on totse.

Kindly refrain from making comically hypocritical comments.

WritingANovel
2009-01-09, 03:12
Kindly refrain from making comically hypocritical comments.

Ok. So I made a hypocritcal comment. So what? In fact, I will acknowledge it, and apologize for it. there. Are you vindicated now?

Yes, I presume? Good. Now can we go back to the point of my post, which is that that guy shouldn't have told other people what to do?

Do you agree or disagree with me, you shit?

Fanglekai
2009-01-10, 23:01
Ok. So I made a hypocritcal comment. So what? In fact, I will acknowledge it, and apologize for it. there. Are you vindicated now?

Yes, I presume? Good. Now can we go back to the point of my post, which is that that guy shouldn't have told other people what to do?

Do you agree or disagree with me, you shit?

You made a stupid, hypocritical post, apologized for it, then said it was my fault to begin with. Good job! Most of my posts are intended to be helpful advice, whereas you continue to spam this forum with shit.

My point, since you're still too stupid to understand it, was that if he's horny he should go have sex or masturbate, because posting on totse will not abate his need. The thread itself is pointless because the answer is obvious: if you have sex for a while you're used to it, so you don't think about having to go out and get sex like you do when you're single. Instead of having a constant supply, it's infrequent or nonexistent, yet the need still exists. By analogy, if you're used to eating 5 big meals a day, then you only eat one meal a day, you'll feel hungry until you get used to it.

Now please start making useful posts instead of whining about what I say in mine.

gadzooks
2009-01-11, 01:12
I ended up having sex with a 10 year old.

pics..??

Phanatic
2009-01-14, 22:37
get him to start popping oestrogen like theres no tomorrow.

Yeah....now why would you do that? To grow a pair of bitch tits like those faggy bodybuilders do? Testosterone for males is a GOOD THING, faggot.