...how do you deal with the fact that you'll never experience the same, awesome memories you had with them?

...how do you deal with the fact that you'll never experience the same, awesome memories you had with them?

You come to realize that you will always have those times, and that you have the rest of your life to make more with increasingly more incredible people.

In a world of 6.7 BILLION it is a statistical certainty that there will always be someone slightly more amazing out there waiting to meet you.


-F☺rd

...how do you deal with the fact that you'll never experience the same, awesome memories you had with them?

Never?
You set quite low standards.

Well we all go through that shit, just treasure them, and get going with your new life.

Make new, better memories with cooler, more exciting people.

Drink tequila and move the memories into the very back of your brain only to rear their ugly head later on. I've done that like 6 times now.

Make new, better memories with cooler, more exciting people.

This is the correct answer. Any memory you've made you still get to remember fondly, but there's no point in dwelling in the past when you can make new memories, or heaven forbid live your life outside of memory and in the present.

Do everything possible to get them back, fool.

Do everything possible to get them back, fool.

Not the worst of ideas, this. If you really think she's that awesome, get her back and fucking love her all over the place, give her the life she deserves. Don't hold nothing back, be the best man you can be.

But yeah if you really want it to be over, then fucking deal with the fact that you wanna try other things. You're gonna regret it when you hear about her fooling around with some other guy, but whatever, that's how it goes.

Drugs are always an alternative

A more appropriate question is why the fuck would you break up with someone if they're so great. :mad:

^^^that would be foolish yes (girls do this all the time), but I think the OP is talking about getting dumped (in which case the person isn't so great).

Alcohol -> fuck a wale -> hobby -> work out -> new girlfriend.....in roughly that order.

^^^that would be foolish yes (girls do this all the time),

In defense of woman, why would you think that foolish to break up with someone if your not satisfied? Girls also have the ability to break up for whatever reason. Things just not working is an ok reason if they feel they'll be happier being single and fucking a few guys then latching on one of them.

In defense of woman, why would you think that foolish to break up with someone if your not satisfied? Girls also have the ability to break up for whatever reason. Things just not working is an ok reason if they feel they'll be happier being single and fucking a few guys then latching on one of them.

Because women are never satisfied. It took me a while to learn this.

I was in love once. I was completely satisfied, but failed to realize that she was not. I couldn't have treated her better, never cheated, attended all her needs, and fucked her good (or so I thought). But for whatever reason, she thought she'd be happier being single (and by single I mean fucking another man).

You're right though, women do have the ability to end relationships for reasons that just don't make much sense to me.

Drink tequila and move the memories into the very back of your brain only to rear their ugly head later on. I've done that like 6 times now.

Heed this sagely advice.

There are plenty of fish in the sea my friend. However if you are COMPLETELY convinced that your ex was the one (after 3-4 2 or more week relationships) then consider getting them back.

However perfect she seemed, I personally promise you she had her flaws and quirks.
What you need to do is pour yourself a tall glass of whiskey, take two big gulps, and sip the rest.
When your good to go by your 3rd-5th glass, break out a cigar and enjoy the flavor mix between them.
From there get out and meet people, but I swear youll feel better by the end of that cigar.

^^^that would be foolish yes (girls do this all the time), but I think the OP is talking about getting dumped (in which case the person isn't so great).

Alcohol -> fuck a wale -> hobby -> work out -> new girlfriend.....in roughly that order.

You spelt whale wrong.

You spelt whale wrong.

oops, i meant to say fuck a wall.

fuck off

In a world of 6.7 BILLION it is a statistical certainty that there will always be someone slightly more amazing out there waiting to meet you.
And how many on those 6.7 billion people do you ever meet? How many people do you meet in your life? Say (for the sake of argument) that it's 67,000 (this seems ridiculously high to me, but whatever). Then you're only going to meet 1/100,000 people in the world. It's unrelated, but this means that if there's one true love for you out there, there's a 99.999% chance of you never meeting her. Useless, but amusing.

Think about it this way: take your life expectancy divided by your age. That's the chance that you've already met the best person for you. For me, it's about 1/5. 80% chance of something better coming along.

oops, i meant to say fuck a wall.

fuck off

LOL

well then...

fail^2

You move on, realise that life ain't so bad and that it will all work out for the best in the end.

Because women are never satisfied. It took me a while to learn this.

I was in love once. I was completely satisfied, but failed to realize that she was not. I couldn't have treated her better, never cheated, attended all her needs, and fucked her good (or so I thought). But for whatever reason, she thought she'd be happier being single (and by single I mean fucking another man).

You're right though, women do have the ability to end relationships for reasons that just don't make much sense to me.


Dude that is exactly what happened to me! Its a bitch right?

^^^that would be foolish yes (girls do this all the time), but I think the OP is talking about getting dumped (in which case the person isn't so great).

Alcohol -> fuck a wale -> hobby -> work out -> new girlfriend.....in roughly that order.



When my last relationship ended, the night we broke up, I drank half a bottle of tequila, and not even three days later, I was hooking up with an attractive girl, like a 7/10. I started playing guitar more often, wrote some songs, and now I've just gotten the position as the lead guitarist in a band with an incredible singer who has major hookups in the music industry. Its been 3 months now, if I can accomplish all this, you can accomplish a lot.

So by my bitch ex breaking up with me, she pushed me off in the direction of rock stardom.


If I get famous, I'm probably going to go to her house, and convince her to break up with her boyfriend at the time so she can be with me and have a good life.

Little does she know that I'm going to make her break up with her boyfriend, fuck her, and never talk to her again.

Little does she know that I'm going to make her break up with her boyfriend, fuck her, and never talk to her again.

Please do this.

Please do this.

Why? Just because she broke up with him?
Did she treat you badly? Did she cheat on you? If the answer is no to those questions maybe she just needed a change in her life. Thats not a fucking crime worth screwing her over for. You're bitter because she hurt you, but thats not something to take out on her. The best thing to do when you want to get back at an ex is forget them.

Well Dave, good for you. I didn't hook up with anyone until I found out that she was hooking up with one of my friends, and the girl I got with was more like a 2/10 :(. Now she (the 2/10) thinks she's in love with me and I have to fend her off with a stick. I've been wallowing in self pity for the last 5 months.

Nefret, the reason he needs to "please do this" is so the he can score a victory for all males in the endless battle of the sexes.

Nefret, the reason he needs to "please do this" is so the he can score a victory for all males in the endless battle of the sexes.

Which in all honesty would make me think he was far more of a pathetic human being. Being indifferent to someone is far more hurtful than hating them or obsessing over revenge.

...how do you deal with the fact that you'll never experience the same, awesome memories you had with them?

Get over it. It happens to all of us.

Why? Just because she broke up with him?
Did she treat you badly? Did she cheat on you? If the answer is no to those questions maybe she just needed a change in her life. Thats not a fucking crime worth screwing her over for. You're bitter because she hurt you, but thats not something to take out on her. The best thing to do when you want to get back at an ex is forget them.

Yea but if the bitch did leave her boyfriend at the time for him because hes famous and can give her the "good life" then she deserves what she gets for being a money grubbing whore. The worst thing I did like this was after me and ex broke up I hooked up with my now wife and the ex decided she wanted to be part of my life again, so I told her lets go hang to the mall and brought now wife and didn't tell the ex. Needless to say it was so awesome it kinda made me feel bad because she looked like she wanted to cry so bad haha fucking torched her ass(keep in mind she was A REAL CUNT and probably cheated on me).

But as far as the OP, get over her, yea of course you will always remember those times but you will make many better ones. Also drinking does NOT help, if your going out drinking to have a good time with friends to forget thats fine but sitting at home moping around drinking just makes it a LOT LOT worse. Alcohol just enhances your emotions so if you feel like shit its going to make you feel 20x more like shit. Go out find some sweet pussy and pound that shit and forget the girl. Or you can try to get her back.

Which in all honesty would make me think he was far more of a pathetic human being. Being indifferent to someone is far more hurtful than hating them or obsessing over revenge.

You should learn to savor the sweet, sweet taste of a pointless victory. :p

The best thing to do, I think, is drink for a while and get on with your life. Be more social, meet new people, do new things. Use it as an excuse/motivation to improve yourself.

You'll have as many happy memories as you feel like making.