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HARDMAN
2009-01-06, 07:27
Would you have anything to do with a woman who has had excessive amounts of past relationships? What about one who was married? Or, even further, a mother? Would you turn the other cheek that much baggage?

I know I wouldn't.

Cant Quite Tell
2009-01-06, 07:39
Depends. You mean, has had sex with a ton of guys, or relationships?

Personally, I think its fine to have all the promiscuous sex you want, but it just makes it lose meaning if you do it with people you have absolutely no feelings for. So if a chick had had sex with 20 guys, I would know it couldn't mean much to her and it would be a pretty big turnoff.

If you mean relationships, unless she only had so many because she was nuts or something, it might be nice to have someone who's been through all the crap you can go through, and who's experienced and wise and shit.

Lockie666
2009-01-06, 07:50
It depends on the situation, if she were a slut. Then I'd say no, but if she had been in a past relationship and she were a decent chick I'd say yes.

I've got a girl, I'm happy :)

Agent 008
2009-01-06, 09:48
For casual sex? Sure, why not.

For a relationship? Depends on the girl.

Malkog
2009-01-06, 10:03
I'd probably try to stay away from mothers, but if she was really amazing I could probably overlook it. It really does depend on what sort of relationship I can see between us. It's hard to say "I would never date/fuck a divorcee" because there's always a circumstance where I would.

Dichromate
2009-01-06, 13:33
If she's a slut and clean I'll definitely sleep with her.
Relationship? err maybe but keep in mind that I'm never going to marry.

As for mothers they better either still be tight, or love anal.

Kyoki
2009-01-06, 14:48
I have. Honestly, she was a slut, but fuck she was a wonderful person.

jackketch
2009-01-06, 15:53
Search, we did this not so long ago.

BlackSails
2009-01-06, 17:00
Yeah this is a subjevt that was up for discussion very recently. All the stupid female cunts on this board are gonna come in and tell you how sexist you are and tell you how slutty behavior in no way makes a girl a slut.

Agent 008
2009-01-06, 17:06
Yeah this is a subjevt that was up for discussion very recently. All the stupid female cunts on this board are gonna come in and tell you how sexist you are and tell you how slutty behavior in no way makes a girl a slut.

..And they even continued posting this, after two threads were made - one for males and one for females, asking their preference for the sexual "experience" of their partners (aka the number of people they slept with).

The result was that men would rather their girl was a virgin than she was a total slut, and that women would rather their man had had many previous partners, than for him to be a virgin.

I can link you to the threads, if you like.

jackketch
2009-01-06, 17:30
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I can link you to the threads, if you like.

Please do, i'm cooking at the moment. Someday I am going to find time to write up a sticky archive of all the major threads....someday...maybe...perhaps

Agent 008
2009-01-06, 18:00
Please do, i'm cooking at the moment. Someday I am going to find time to write up a sticky archive of all the major threads....someday...maybe...perhaps

Thread about the number of preferred partners for a girl: http://www.totse.com/community/showthread.php?t=2176338

Thread about the number of preferred partners for a bloke: http://www.totse.com/community/showthread.php?t=2176610

Not exactly scientific research, and the threads were more about "what you consider slutty" than "what is the preferred number of previous partners for your s/o", but you can see a bit of a trend.

wires
2009-01-07, 22:21
It depends what you're looking for. Sex - are you just after the act, or is it 'special'? Do you want a partner with no relationship experience or a lot? It doesn't always mean someone who has had many many sexual partners will always want to continue so. Such variables!