View Full Version : Dating an escort.
easeoflife22
2009-01-12, 23:11
I started chatting with this new woman very recently, and she's a high-priced escort. She makes huge bucks, has her own place and whatnot, and just wants a nice guy for a long-term relationship. She's very hot of course, and I'm thinking she could probably make my sexual fantasies all come true. Since the place she works at is a super classy place that only caters to the rich, I'm guessing she's probably pretty clean. What would you do?
Me, I'm definitely curious.
earthbound01
2009-01-12, 23:56
Pics or it didn't happen.
easeoflife22
2009-01-13, 01:42
I'm actually serious. I meet odd people in odd places. Should really start hanging out in normal places, lol.
Anyways, I'm looking for real responses.
edit: She sent me a pic.
http://i27.photobucket.com/albums/c188/Dark_Merchant/ModelingShots-1.jpg
Silverfuck
2009-01-13, 02:09
I don't think I could date someone who worked in the sex industry; I wouldn't be able to get over the fact that they were sleeping with other people. But if you're okay with what she does for a living and can put any jealousy aside, then what's the problem?
You're going to get jealous. You'll have to overcome it. It's just another day at work for her.
You've also got to understand that she's probably not going to be extremely interested in having sex with you all the time. I mean, if you worked all day as a plumber you're not going to want to come home and fix pipes right away.
Another question is, did you meet her in real life or online? You haven't clarified this, and the pic-sending jolted my suspicion.
Yggdrasil
2009-01-13, 04:12
Well, infidelity will abound in such a relationship, but then again, in your situation that's a given. And of course, there's always the risk of contracting a sexually transmitted disease. Other than that, such a relationship has got lots of perks. She will be very experienced in bed, so +1 for "talent". And of course, classy escorts can make a very nice income.
I guess the feasibility of such a relationship is up to the individual.
Well does she have anything to offer besides her looks? I mean, I know looks are everything and all, but she obviously exploits them for a living, what's she going to do when she's old, decrepit, and ugly? I'd be particularly suspicious of her because she relies on her looks for a lot, you know? If that's all you're looking for then you may as well just pay her for some sex.
Sinister Minister
2009-01-13, 04:40
You people are amazing. You ain't marrying the bitch, for chrissakes. As long as she isn't the type to steal your wallet or cut your dick off in your sleep, it won't hurt to take her out on casual dates and the like.
She's probably lots of fun and has some cool stories to tell.
So long as you met her off the books (i.e. not through her agency) it shouldn't be much of an issue - escorts can lose their jobs for seeing clients on the side, y'know. Regardless I wouldn't expect anything more than for her to be a good fuckbuddy - she's been around quite a bit, y'know, and while you're probably not the ugliest or worse she'll have ever been with, I guarantee you're quite far from the best.
Just take it for what it is - good sex with a sex professional. I use escorts on a frequent basis but don't expect anything more than a tight vag and great body.
easeoflife22
2009-01-13, 06:19
Another question is, did you meet her in real life or online? You haven't clarified this, and the pic-sending jolted my suspicion.
I met her online. I meet lots of people online. It's kind of becoming normal for me. I've met lots of great people online through various places. I even know people here on this site. Last week I visited a female friend for a week that I met online. She was a model, and the sex was great, hehe. The internet gets me laid by hot women, so I can't complain.
This girls seems really nice. She's actually incredibly normal despite her occupation. Really, I'll be getting for free what men are paying a lot of money for. She's looking for a long-term relationship, and eventually to have someone move in with her. She doesn't ask for much, only to be treated well. I didn't meet her through her agency, and she was rather surprised that I figured out where she worked due to an e-mail reply function error, lol. I'm not sure if it will go any further than some dates and probably some really good sex, but it should be quite the experience at the very minimum. Could learn a thing or two as well.
This is like the time I dated a crack head.
Dichromate
2009-01-13, 10:53
You're going to get jealous. You'll have to overcome it. It's just another day at work for her.
You've also got to understand that she's probably not going to be extremely interested in having sex with you all the time. I mean, if you worked all day as a plumber you're not going to want to come home and fix pipes right away.
Pretty much this.
Seriously, there isn't any more pathetic a situation than where she's too tired to have sex with *you* because she's been fucking other people all day.
WritingANovel
2009-01-13, 12:11
uhm, I could be overly optimistic/romantic or whatever, but surely there's a possibility that they will fall in love and maybe she will quit her job for him/to marry him..etc?
Although the loss of income would definitely suck. Actually, maybe not. Maybe she can use her "connections" to open a brothel and become a pimpette, you know, getting rich off of other people's labour like a true capitalist.
blaksmith666
2009-01-13, 18:15
Since shes going to get paid to have sex during your relationship, are you free to go out and fuck around?
If not, she better spoil your ass.
another term for escort is gfe. she would never be your gf just a gfe at high rate per hour. this is what they are trained for. she will just be scamming you or rather doing what shes paid to. but hey if you think she really wants a bf or you for her bf go for just remember its only for as long as you pay. then her next "bf" will be on the way.
high class escorts are educated well trained strippers. ever go to a strip club before?
gl though op if you think you really have a chance.
Fanglekai
2009-01-14, 02:27
Wait so what happened to your online model girlfriend from the faraway country? You broke up with her already?
You have no proof the person you're talking to is the woman in that photo, just so you know.
Also, it's a bad idea.
easeoflife22
2009-01-14, 06:51
Wait so what happened to your online model girlfriend from the faraway country? You broke up with her already?
You have no proof the person you're talking to is the woman in that photo, just so you know.
Also, it's a bad idea.
She doesn't live in another country, just another province. Canada is a huge place, so it might as well be another country though. We didn't really break up. I spent a week with her from the 31st to the 7th. We had a great time, and still keep in touch. I was actually chatting with her right before I made this post. We decided the distance was a little bit of an issue, and we both have some shit we need to settle in our lives which would limit visits to every 3-4 months. Hopefully once I have my welding ticket, we'll both still be single and be able to be together. Until then, I'm technically single, and free to do what I like. She is definitely wife material though, which is hard to find these days. Her personality is great, hot body, and she's really good in bed. I was the first guy ever to make her cum without her having to use a toy for stimulation, so I'm definitely very much a keeper in her mind. She told me I'm the nicest guy she's ever met too, and would definitely be willing to be with me if the situation could be realized.
As for this new girl that is interested in me. I know it's her, cause it really wouldn't make sense to want to meet someone soon if she was lying. I'm not blind, so I'm sure she'd know that I would figure it out pretty quick if it wasn't her. I can honestly say that everyone I've met on the net has been who they sent pics of. Plus her e-mail was linked through the company she works for. She didn't realize this, and was a little shocked when I told her I knew where she worked. She wasn't confused, or denied it, which meant it was really her. Most women don't lie to me about these things, cause I'm a good looking guy, and they want to meet me. Just tonight I got another offer from a woman who wants me to be her fuck buddy. The internet is a highly successful tool for me, and I find it kind of comical that people are so skeptical. If I wanted to, I could find a decent looking woman every single week that is willing to date, fuck, or whatever. It's better than going to the bar really. I say what I want in an add, women respond, and then I pick which one I want. Most of the woman are really normal, don't like the bar scene, and I don't have to have late night drunk sex, which is all you find at bars. Plus, I don't have to have to spend a dime. Maybe buy them coffee, and then I get laid. Here's the add she responded to.
Better than a vibrator. ( That's my headline)
" I'm a good looking 24 yo male. I'm a dirty blond, blue eyes, 6ft. tall, 175lbs, and I'm in good shape. I love se*x, and I love to experiment. I'm also pretty large, and have great stamina. I'm looking for women that love se*x too. Maybe your just young and want a nice guy at your service, in a relationship and need some fun or variety, or just tired of pathetic lays.Age doesn't matter, as long as you're attractive to me. I'm not here to cause problems for anyone, and offer full discretion."
Women then respond, and I send a pic. If they're hot, I keep talking to them. If not, I just decline them. Then we make plans to meet for coffee to see if we want to fuck. I'm super charming, and women melt for me with relative ease. I don't lie, make false promises, lead them on, or anything. It's really that simple. Most of the women I meet are very nice, clean, single, can't find a decent guy or a relationship just isn't of interest to them, don't like the bar scene, and just really need to get fucked. This is such an easy way to get laid, I'm surprised more guys don't take advantage. All you need is to know how to write in a way to excite women's minds, and know how to talk to them when you meet. Women want sex, so you just have to be presentable, well spoken, have a little charm, and a sense of humor. I dress normal, I have a humble life, no show at all. 100% success rate so far.
SomeLowLife
2009-01-14, 07:24
Dating an escort is way too expensive for me.