Well, it has come to this, I have known her for exactly the length i have known my girlfriend, down to the last second,

The best friend shall be referred to as "M" From hereon in.

Me and "M" are Pretty good friends, we get along great, talk alot, have lots in common, Now, after my LATEST argument with my girlfriend (these are pretty regular), I went around for a day or so in a Crazy unknown mood, Talked to my girlfriend the next day, then went home, Now, just before i got a text from "M" Then i realized... i had a crush on her, My reasons to this

she's on my mind alot, i'm always expecting her, I'm happy as when i get a text from her, i actually remember her face, we get along like really well, i get pissed off bad when someone tries to hit on her/ask me if she is single, She is Usually the second most frequent person to text me.

and, i realized i had a crush on her since new years, i have had crushes on her previous, but they went away as the relationship with my girlfriend went back up

now i have no idea what to do, i love my girlfriend to death, we are still Together, and talking, Even though we argue alot, and she is immature, and really stresses me out to no end, But at the same time, i really like "M", i know she is already a good friend, but. that just makes it worse kinda, and she is one of the friends who i think would still be my friend if me and my girlfriend ever broke up.

TL/DR, Have a crush on my Good friend, Who ironically enough Is my girlfriends best friend, and i am wondering if this is partly because of the Constant arguments with my girlfriend.

Mmm, i'm sure there is something encoded in the brain that when a relationship is failing - it looks for other prospects. It's most likely a sign that your relationship is on the ropes at the moment as you can probably tell? (just think, if your mind is wandering, perhaps hers is too? Unfortunately, if nothing is done this will just get more severe =[ ..) I wish I was more experienced in life to help you out more, good luck.

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Sadly, this is area of expertise. I'd make a few comments to "M" about the past and how her best friend is really starting to tear you up on the inside. This could have several different effects depending on how you and her react.

You could use her to talk to your female companion and try to help you get back on track with her.

You could play around for a bit and stream line it so your g/f breaks up with you so you can fall for her friend or her friend fall for you.

You could take very direct route of "I never really liked/loved her as much as I have for you(M) secretly all this time... yada yada yada..."

I'm going to stop here because your options are infinite. It just depends on the varying degree of how much she likes you and the state(intox/sober) you are in at the time.

To be blatantly honest(and to explain why I wrote my post like this), you wouldn't be looking if you didn't want to get rid of your current model.

No matter how you decide to play this, always use your head and do your best to play it by ear .

Sounds like you have your self in a little tizzy. Hmm it sounds like either way its not going to be pretty either. If you dump your girl for this "m" then yea thats going to cause a lot of drama on both sides. If you think your really "falling" for this chick then it sounds like your relationship is doomed. Get out of it fast..dump the chick if you have feelings for someone else but going after "m" might not be a good idea.

and yea the fights I am sure bring feelings into it you thought you did not have so try to work shit out or end it so you are not stringing her along

im in a similar situation, i'd give my gfs friend all teh sex ever.....

But I am a decent person and wouldn't do something like that.

Wasn't there a guy on Totse who started living with 2 girls, in a kind of three-way relationship?

If your girls are open-minded enough, this could be the best way forward. You love them both, they obviously like each other, being friends, and they both like you.

Giggidy.

Well, do you want to stop having feelings for her, or do you want to act on it?

It sounds like you could potentially cheat with this girl. Considering you always fight with your girlfriend, who you say you "love" (lol yea rite), and because her best friend obviously has a crush on you (because she's the second most frequent person to text you.)

I think you should tell her to stop texting, you should stop talking to her after you and you girlfriend have had a fight and you should stop getting all protective when other guys hitting on her.

Seriously, it's not like she's yours. Let her get a boyfriend of her own, that will probably help your feelings go away.

It's obvious that you don't want her to get a boyfriend, because you see her as a potential girlfriend for yourself, at least on a subconscious level.

Ok so I didn't read ANY Of the replies but heres the real questions, IS said friend hotter then girlfriend? Would said friend swallow your load among other awesome sexual acts? Is there any possiblity to just turn it into a three way action? Also what kind of fun fucked up nasty things does your now girlfriend let you do and are you willing to give up that sweet fucking pussy?

But the most important question that your dumb fucking ass didn't bother to address DOES THE FUCKING GIRL HAVE A CRUSH BACK ON YOU? Thats all fine and fucking dandy that you want to stick your dick in her but the problem is what is she going to do or say? Is she going to be cool with you trying to fuck her? Or is it a you like her and she only sees you as a friend and nothing else? Because if you are fucking retarded and think "OH I LOVE HER SHES THE OMG 1337SHIT!!11!!!" But she thinks "oh hes really nice but hes just a friend plus hes my BEST FRIENDS man" your going to make your friendship awkward and loose your girl. Think about it fucking retard because shes the best friend, this could cause her to be a cunt and like you but not want to ruin her relationship with her friend.

Trust me some girls will say fuck the friend and go for you, I turned two best friends into enemies because they both wanted me and I picked one and they both got jealous of the other. Remeber the most important thing is whether she wants you and will go with it because if you try to hook up and she rejects your now girlfriend is going to dump you.

^ That guy is on to something.

We need pics.

^ That guy is on to something.

We need pics.

Actually on the contrary you are on to something PICTURES OR YOUR A FUCKING QUEER!!!!!!!!!!! We need to see pictures first to let you know whether you should stay with the girl you with now, leave her for best friend, try for a three some or just blow your own brains out because you have ugly girls around you.

We need pics.

This.

I don't think it'll go anywhere man. It's probably in your best interests to forget about it. If she's any kind of person, M will probably turn you down because you're dating/dated her best friend. It makes things complicated. Maybe after a long time you'd have a better chance but I reckon give it a miss.

Have regular sex with both of them. Who knows, maybe it will turn out they are both bisexual, and you then enter a meaningful three way relationship (that's my fantasy... to date to hot girls who are also into each other... crazy threesomes every night... *drool*).

well, I have gotten hints that she may like me back, By saying stuff like, oh your taken, for now, Or for now your a neutral party, so i can talk to you, and the fact she keeps saying "for now" or similar, and also, i think of her on a pretty much Non-Sexual way, and i wouldn't MIND being with her, just not while i'm still with my girlfriend, who i don't want to lose.

well, I have gotten hints that she may like me back, By saying stuff like, oh your taken, for now, Or for now your a neutral party, so i can talk to you, and the fact she keeps saying "for now" or similar, and also, i think of her on a pretty much Non-Sexual way, and i wouldn't MIND being with her, just not while i'm still with my girlfriend, who i don't want to lose.

Is it your birthday soon? Or some other gift giving event? If so ask for a threesome, then ask this girl if shes down.


At least thats what I would do... but thats my fantasy n such.

2 weeks in the game i got a car and a murder.

Actually, since Totse is closing down, post nudes, nobody will care the day after tomorrow anyway, but at least we'll have some fun.

Let's go out with a blast guys!